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Hi. Hope someone can put my mind at risk

I am a New Zealand male who met a transexual I had been chatting to on the internet last week. Before meeting, I got the following information:

- S/he said she was hiv negative and disease free

- that she only plays with straight guys

- That she never has penetrative sex

- That she uses condoms

I met at her place and we both put condoms on before doing anything. We then performed oral on each other briefly - no ejaculation (condom protected). We then deep kissed a bit and then s/he stuck her finger in my arse for a couple of minutes. I am worried as my bum felt a bit irritated for an hour or so afterward although it was fine that evening. I looked at her fingers and they didn't have visible cuts on them.

Can you comment on my risk please??
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Again, thanks for your answer. Have just done a read through of your profile and you obviously have a comprehensive knowledge of the topic. You obviously play a really important role in your community which is to be applauded.

Thanks heaps again!
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No risk.
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Hi thanks for the answer - so even the finger up my bum posed zero risk???
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You were never at risk.
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Please...can anyone help??
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