Hi. Hope someone can put my mind at risk
I am a New Zealand male who met a transexual I had been chatting to on the internet last week. Before meeting, I got the following information:
- S/he said she was hiv negative and disease free
- that she only plays with straight guys
- That she never has penetrative sex
- That she uses condoms
I met at her place and we both put condoms on before doing anything. We then performed oral on each other briefly - no ejaculation (condom protected). We then deep kissed a bit and then s/he stuck her finger in my arse for a couple of minutes. I am worried as my bum felt a bit irritated for an hour or so afterward although it was fine that evening. I looked at her fingers and they didn't have visible cuts on them.
Can you comment on my risk please??