Everybody please help me

[sabaidee]

Hi all,

I am happy to search out this site on the Internet. It is really a very useful site for me now. I am a gay male so I sometimes have sex with guys in the gym club. But as I am also afraid of the danger of HIV, so I have known about it and have some basic knowledge and never want to out of border. So most of time having sex we just:

+ We (me and guys) kissed and masturbate each other, even deep kissing. For some guys we licked body as well. They also lick my balls. I also gave them to perform Oral sex for me but most times I had condom. Just only 2 times unprotected oral sex for only 2 minutes.

+ I did anal sex for 2 times and I am Top. Two those times are PROTECTED (Checked that condom was not broken)

But I have 2 concerns about my story. Please help me to answer:

1) One time I licked balls for one guy, his balls have rough so it makes my tongue graze, then I perform Oral sex for him about 1 minute maybe. So I wonder am I at risk if he has pre-cum on his head and my tongue was bleeding at that time?

2) Do masturbate, kiss, and lick for each other infect HIV?

These days my skin on face feels itchy and lumpy when the weather changes or for no reasons. Is that a sign of being infected HIV

To sum up my concern, I can say these: NO UNPROTECTED ANAL SEX, UNPROTECTED ORAL SEX for 2 times about 2 minutes. MOST TIME KISS, MASTURBATE, LICK EACH OTHER ONLY. Just worry about 2 questions above. I would be graceful if you could help me to answer my question. Thank you so much.

[sabaidee]

Thanks both your replies, they are so encourage. I am worried because my face's skin is itchy and lumpy these days so I feel nervous. Thank you again I appreciate your help.

[LIZZIE LOU]

hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

hiv is NOT transmitted through oral sex, masturbation, licking, rubbing, kissing, etc.

transmission takes place when a penis is INSIDE a vagina / anus.

you absolutely had NO RISK and do not need testing.

[Vance2335]

I have already said you did not have a risk.

So your skin itches, so does mine at times and millions of other people's, it has nothing to do with HIV

[sabaidee]

Thanks Vance you mean I am safe for all of those times and have no risk at all? But i am afraid since my face's skin is a little itchy. Is that a sign of HIV?? Can you conclude that it is 0% risk?

[Vance2335]

If being masterbated an/or kissing was a risk then we would tell you. And honestly most of the would would have HIV by now. You did not have a risk.

[sabaidee]

Thanks Vance but can you explain clearly it more?? I know protected anal sex = safe sex. But have anyone got HIV from masturbating, kissing?? These days my skin on face is itchy and lumpy because of the weather or sometimes no reason. I am scary that is  a sign of hiv. :(

[Vance2335]

1) Oral sex is not a risk
2) No