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Expert Advise Please. It is a tough one..HIV/?????

Hello,
I am male and had vaginal sex with my girl frd long for 1 week without any protection that was happened in spectember-2013,after that i moved to new place where i met new frd in december -2013 i don’t know her status, she looks tired all the time, she had high cold when i met the day i observed but she said that she don’t have any STD. i Have started brief kissing and then she performed oralsex on me and i given her oral for 20 sec it was so nasty smell yaoook where i stopped, but i continued her fingering and then she brought condom and put on my penis, i inserted only 2 time in her vagina and i removed..and then she finished with oral and took all cum into mouth, the condom she put on me i am not sure is it brand new or used from somebody, she has stock up condom in her bathroom, later i realized she has sex with some other folks..  after the incident 7-8 days i started feel so tired, unwell, slight fever, dry mouth, itching all over the body..I went to urologist where he performed all std panel negative include HIV ab, then continue fever and stomach problem, mild pain under right liver area..where i realized something going wrong in my body and went to ID dr for he checkup hiv PCR RNA quant with other STD all negative..she just write antibiotics ..no relief in symptoms..low grade fever continues include at 3 months general lymph nodes rash in upper chest , muscle wasting, pink eyes, loss appetite all happened one by one and still continues i am now in 7 mon but no relief. i definitely feel i got some virus..hiv/? or some thing? [B]in the 7 mon process i have check for hiv antibody in 2,8,15,28 week all negative; hiv pcr rna 5,15 week not detected, hiv oraquick at home 4,9,13,15,19 negative, std negative check for 2 times in 3 month period, ebv cmv igg positive, autoimmune negative, tb negative, lupus negative[/B],
1. Please suggest any thoughts is this about hiv or any virus??
2. continious fever every night, general lymph nodes pain, chills shaking my body, oral thrush..hurting too much in my daily life.
3. i tested hiv eia antibody after 28 weeks, ,means finish 6 month negative..still symptoms..is this hiv or any different virus.. ebv cmv igg negative..is symptoms related to cmv or ebv? i heard that healthy individuals wont get any problems with cmv or ebv..but where all these symptoms coming from..Chronic infection??
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I had took one more hiv 1/2 antibody test at finish of 9 months recently and it is also negative. What is the realiabilty of these tests ?? I have continious low grade fever, thrush, swollen lymph nodes, muscle mass lost and sore throat and horrible life. I check ebv vca igg, igm negative; ebv eg-na postive; what are the odds I will turn hiv positive? Does ebv past infection affecting hiv negative results??
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I have CBC test where monocytes are high, liver enzymes ALT high; also ebv igg positive, cmv igg positive cmv igm normal.. Hiv negative at 32 weeks , have any idea what causing regular persistent low grade fever, general lymphnodes , skin rash.. Please help ..
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Whenever I see some of your assurances I get some relief other wise all day I spent alone and get stupid thoughts ...
Thanks you friend
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You seem to have some sort of condition. But it is not HIV!! Your tests prove it beyond any doubt!
And the time line is not consistent.

Mononucleosis? (just a thought)

I urge you to talk to your doctor...but it is not HIV!
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Friend thanks you trying to help me but

My fever daily morning , lymphnodes, this tongue hurting me.. I lost my muscles .. My body is hot touch every time.. If somebody touch me they can feel my body is hot... They asking me something wrong...

I know some virus flowing in my body.. My high risk sex behavior ruined my life.. I don't where I take my life..
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Relax!!

Your garden variety AB test proves beyond a doubt that you do not have HIV!
PCR tests are used to detect viral loads in folks with the infection.
An antibody test at or beyond 12 weeks is still the definite gold standard to determine HIV neg status!
The reason is that your body's immune response is the most reliable yard stick. 8 weeks is almost golden. 10 weeks is almost defintive. But 15 weeks and you're good to go!
Are you undergoing potent medication to suppress your immune system due to organ transplant surgery? Are you on cancer treatment? If your answer is no then YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV!!
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