Uneperienced and need advice. PLEASE HELP!!!

[slyguy]

So here it goes, I met this guy, amazing guy who I thought I would date.  Well we hung out 3 times, and we made out heavily.  Well then we started to talk about our status and stuff, and he told me that he had HIV.  He caught it from the very first guy he slept with.  I started crying tremendusly, well my quetion is.  When he told me I started to think about me and my status.  I know I am Hiv Neg.  but do you think I could have caught HIV from kissing him.  He says not to worry, he has dated 4 other guys and has even had sex with them protected and they are okay.  So it's been 2 days since he told me, and I checked my fever today and it was 90.1 degress.  Would you be worried if you were me? DO you think I could have caught the virus from him.  I don't have a lot of experience in this, so please help.

[gainingknowledge]

what is your result now?

Oh i thought ur a guy......Tell me what is your result now?

[stelutu]

I still think you have issues :) you're comprehension is kind of low. I am a girl, so I could not have that kind of exposure, but oral sex on man :(. I've said before Teak knows very well HIV phenomenon since he has studied it for many years. But you can read many well documented posts, for ex xgost I discovered today to give a very good A. Try to ease down,.... you are just fine.
     After 6 months I have big lymphs still and oral candida and still I learned to say: that's it. only my fault. everybody dies after all :(

[gainingknowledge]

what was ur exposure? can u tell me?

clicking or tasting girls vagina was your exposure?

I do respect and i believe Teek is the man who have 100 percent knowledge, do u agree that?

[stelutu]

gaining...I think u have issues bigger than i do..........At least i have had ALL symptoms from an oral, and it was giving, not receiving! receiving is no risk!! got it, deep, close, long, short, NO risk! only giving, and you are male so out of the Q.
      Now....come on : on your opinion, if oral means putting your penis in girl's mouth, than anal should be putting......***...... right???
      I still think you are blood donner.....

[Teak]

Nope

[gainingknowledge]

Come on......you never answered my question yet.........

But Teak i have a question for you.

Do you think if Deep Oral Sex means, girl sucks guy's penis is riskier? i mean deep.....

Just a straight answer YES or NO

[Teak]

Oral isn't.

[stelutu]

do you live on earth? if oral sex is.....and vag sex is.......come on, troll !!!

[gainingknowledge]

what is anal sex mean? can you tell that? i cant understand what is anal sex? mean?

[stelutu]

I told u his exposure: diving anal sex ( few times),than pulled out and used condom. I think this site would say low risk :one time exposure, few moments, no semen, he was not receiving...but still! He turned out +ve in 6-8 weeks.
NO : girl infected giving oral is no risk for man.......No risk, got it?

[gainingknowledge]

who is ntjok guy? what was his exposure?

So i guy's pennis is sucked by girl who is infected, does guy have any risk of contracting HIV?

[stelutu]

    oh, you are perfectly right, but I meant giving oral on man, I am sorry, I supposed it can be understood. Giving oral on man is a risk since it is involved precum and semen. Even if no precum involved, I am not sure it is no risk, since ntjok guy got infected only by diving few times anal sex.....no ejaculation!!! and he on top.....so really, after all it is jackpot......
      You were right from your point of view : for the man or woman receiving oral sex ( only saliva involved ) no risk at all.

[gainingknowledge]

Then in that case even receiving or giving oral sex should also be no risk, because even there saliva is involveed right?
Please correct my understanding if iam wrong

[stelutu]

NO....worried wells.......you cannot catch HIV from kissing.....the virus can be identified in saliva,...but it is not enough quantity to be transmited to someone else. It is said that even giving oral is low risk, kissing only is now risk at all ( in semen the VL is much higher). You had no risk.