I had sex for the first time about 4 weeks ago. I used a condom, but there was some naked foreplay. My condom also kept slipping and I am not sure it was on the whole time. The girl has had sex about 25 times, protected and unprotected.
For the week after, my penis was tingling and I thought I caught some other STD, but those symptoms went away.
4 weeks and 2 days after sex, I am developing a fever. My throat is somewhat sore, but I have been having a lot of chills and a lot of night sweat. I am in a foreign country and I will be here for two more weeks. I told my partner to get tested since if she tests negative for HIV, then I surely do not have it.
I am very anxious right now and I do not know what to do. Could you please give me some advice on my chances of catching HIV, what these symptoms mean, and if I should go ahead and get tested myself or wait until I get back home, or also if I should get the fever checked out?