Fingering

[jolam]

Dear All,

I'm mum of a two kids.
Recently, I met a guy at a bar and we did lots of mutual masturbation that night.
He use his fingers to finger my vagina and anus.
He finished when I reached my ejaculation.
Next after a shower I noticed few cuts in his index finger and middle finger.
They were not bleeding but I asked what happened, he said he might have gotten them while working in his garage in the morning.
These were the same fingers used to finger my anus and vagina.
am I at a risk of HIV if he is HIV positive.
Do you recommend testing given the fact that I have two very young kids?

Thanks

[lucky231]

I am worried about the same thing jolam. The what ifs are nerve racking. How are you getting over the anxiety?

[Teak]

I answered your fingering question. HIV is not transmitted by fingering cut or no cuts.

[jolam]

Sure I did not have penetrative sex.
My question is if the cuts were bleeding due to pressure during anal and vaginal fingering. will it transmit HIV?

[Teak]

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child

Fingering is not a risk of HIV transmission.