ok so im a male never had sex my ex has performed oral unprotected on me 2 or 3 times she took good care of her mouth and my new girl friend gave me unprotected oral 2 weeks ago and she had a cold sor on her mouth today she woke up with flu symptoms runny nose fever chills sore body congestion stuffy nose so now im freakin that i have hiv and gave it to her whats the risk that i have it and gave it to her please help im almost in tears