French kiss & body massage...

[Frankgood_1001]

Hi all Doctors,

I am form Asia so forgive me if my English is bad...I went to mainland China for a body massage on the 30th of April this year, although I said massage but it's not a formal one because it involved with hand job as well. I first received a full body(except leg and feet) massage from her, then she started touching my penis and eventually gave me a french kiss, but I didn't put my tongue into her mouth, I just let her used her tongue to surf around my gums and my mouth cavity for 5 seconds. After that she gave me a handjob to finish off the massage.

My main concerns are as follow:

1. I am extremely worried about if I will catch HIV virus from that french kiss, I know alot of you would say a big "NO" to this question...but some people suggested that if there are wounds or bleeding wounds (such as oral ulcer) in both male and female's oral cavity, there is still a chance to get infected...is this theory true or not true, are there any similar cases in WHO or other organization's records?

2. Is it possible to get infected from hand jobs? I am not sure if her hands are clean or so, so I am kinda worried

3.Do I need a hiv infection test after 90 days? Do you suggest me to do this?

4. I am extremely worried and starting to ask myself what if she and I both gotten oral ulcer at the same time...what if her hands are dirty etc...am I over worried? Can I still have sex with my girlfriend now or do I need to wait...I am so regret I did such a thing and I swear to myself I would never do such a thing in my life time again!

Thank you so much for your time and I wish you have a good day

Frankie

[Teak]

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[Frankgood_1001]

Sorry but I just want to sort this theory out, isn't there an incident which a man and his partner who both have extensive gum desease and they kissed each other and get infected with HIV? Is this true or not? Also, blood contains HIV virus, oral wounds which bleeds cannot infect other people...Why is that?

I know I am kinda annoying but please I just want to get clear on everything and move on....thx so much!

[Frankgood_1001]

So do you think I should move on and avoid the test, and still can have sex with my girlfriend? I swear to god I won't do this kinda thing again in my life!

[Teak]

Can't help the incorrect information that you find elsewhere. You never had an exposure.

[Frankgood_1001]

ok..don't assume I want to argue with you and I also want to thank you for answering my question, but the thing is, some people said that oral wounds ,such as oral ulcer which bleeds, can carry HIV virus through blood and transfer to other people while wet kissing, isn't that logically true?

[Teak]

That is not true at all.

[Frankgood_1001]

but what about mouth ulcer? Some people said that if there are wounds or bleeding wounds (such as oral ulcer) in both male and female's oral cavity, there is still a chance to get infected

[Teak]

You do not have an HIV concern,  you never had an exposure.