HELP:RISK OF CONTRACTING HIV 18 YR OLD FIRST TIMMER

[ruka]

I went to massage palor in Cape Town had sex with a prostitute and used a condom.Worried that she had put baby oil in her vagina and i inserted my penis wearing a condom and had sex.I had it was risky? What is the risk.
Therefore I WAS FREAKED OUT.I CONTINUE TO BE SCARED FOR MY LIFE.I  had to beg her next day and paid her cash to do a HIV-TEST we waited 30 minutes for the results in a hospital and we were both negative.
Please help i never thought my first time would end up this horrible.My holiday to South Africa has become a nightmare after being pressured by friends that men are not virgins.Please help since my parents would kill me and judge me.Please help i will never do such a thing again.

[ruka]

When you said if the condom had failed, what did you mean? I may look stupid but i never had anyone explain these kind of stuff.I want to learn so that i can tell my mates not to fool around.

[Teak]

If you buy condoms by the box read the insert. Oil is known to weaken the latex and causing them to fail. Your lucky to see condoms on the media.

[ruka]

Thanks alot for the information.What is risk for using oil based lubricants? Why dont we learn this info on media? Today i manged to sleep.Thanks

[Teak]

Unless the condom failed which you would have known. You did not have a risk. It's better to use a non oil base lube.