thank you, Im not at sleezbag I dont pay for sex so dont think that I found that stuff out later. but thank you/
Sex workers too, care for their lives equally (if not more than) because their expoosure is much frequent than ours. She used protection which did not fail so you have no reason to worry about HIV and other STD's. Seek professional medical help for your said illness which could be due to anything other than HIV.
However, without an intention to scare you, this fact must be kept in mind by everyone who is sexually active, that condoms offer total protection against HIV and a number of STD's only until they remain intact and as soon as they fail, your category of safe sex changes immediately and experts warrant a test in such situation. So if you are so scared of catching HIV and still want to continue with your activities, better limit yourself with non penetrative no risk behaviors like oral, mutual masturbation and anything you like, except going "in".