I just got tested. Since this incident happened 2+ years ago, my result is conclusive.
I'm negative!!!! Thanks everyone for all the responses :)
What is going on here?
blueduy
13 hours ..It's just been confirmed. That guy I had sex with is HIV +. I asked him together tested and he has HIV. My life is over. I haven't gotten teste but when we had sex and the condom slipped and there was blood as it was my first time getting anal. My life is over.
You have been told before about testing.
Reread my last post. You already told us your partner was +, yesterday.
Go get tested.
I have some
Bad news. So I was finally able to contact the person who i had sex with and he told me he's HIV +. What are the chances of
Me havin it? I know this gapped. A bit over two wars ago but I'm still very scared. I could go get tested right now... But I am a mess. I can't even get myself to do it. I'm so scared
From what you explained, it sounds like your partner lost the condom upon withdrawal, which, like Teak already told you...wouldn't be a risk. If the condom had come off any other time, it would be more likely that the condom would have ended up INSIDE you.
Even IF your sex with the newly positive partner was not completely protected, it still doesn't mean you contracted HIV. There is a better chance that you didn't. You didn't describe anything remotely consistent with HIV symptoms.
The only way to know is to test. We've told you the testing guidelines. A result at 3 months after exposure will be conclusive. A negative at 8 weeks+ post exposure is almost surely not going to change.
While the news that your partner is infected is certainly upsetting, it isn't a reason to panic just yet. Go get tested, it's the only option here, good luck!
It's just been confirmed. That guy I had sex with is HIV +. I asked him together tested and he has HIV. My life is over. I haven't gotten teste but when we had sex and the condom slipped and there was blood as it was my first time getting anal. My life is over.
You have to test,it's the only way.I know you're scared but think of the total relief when you get a negative result.Take the test.
I am suffering from great anxiety. I can't concentrate and I have horrible nightmares... I know I need to go get tested. But I just can't being myself to do it. I'm terribly scared. I don't know what I would do if they tell me I am infected. I'd lose my mind.
Your boyfriends test has nothing to do with you status. Only why to know if YOU have HIV is for you to be tested. You csn obtain a conclusive result three months post exposure.
Let's suppose i did contract hiv, would my boyfriend show as infected during his test? He tested a month after we became sexually active. And he did that test that looks for the actual virus as opposed to the antivirus. Does that test have the same window period as the standard tests?
what's the truth regarding the six weeks mark? Conclusive? encouraging? Not conclusive?
And, would my
More than likely he lost it on withdraw which isn't a risk Had he losted in when having sex he would have shoved the condom up you.
When we began having sex it was on his penis. then we switched positions and he penetrated me about four times then i puled away and when i did this i noticed the condom wasn't on him anymore and i looked to the floor and there it was. so I'm thinking that when we switched positions the condom somehow slipped.
Slipped? Either it was on his penis or it wasn't.
oh, im sorry. i forgot to mention the condom slipped and i was penetrated two or three times without it.
You had protected sex and didn't have an exposure.
crap I should have mentioned that my concern comes from the fact that the condom slipped and he did penetrate me a couple times before i noticed.