Dear Doctors, I am writing to you from Italy so I am sorry for my bad English.
I'm really worried, I'm having a difficult time at moment. I am a married man who has never had risky sex situations until now.
23 days ago I went to a prostitute who made me a body to body massage, we were both naked. At a certain point, she asked me if I wanted to have an intercourse with her and I refused. I want to clarify that during this massage we rubbed our bodies but with no genital to genital contact (only skin to skin contact). I know I should be fine regarding HIV with massage.
The thing that worries me is that for a minute I put my finger into the anus of the girl and while she was massage the other arm, I removed my finger and immediately (after one second) I scratched vigorously under the neck where I suffer from pimples and very irritated skin. Hearing a bad smell we stopped and she told me to go to the bathroom to clean myself because I was a little bit dirty with her own feces, right in the place where I had scratched my irritated skin.
At the beginning I was not worried but now yes: after 16/18 days I had very high fever, dry cough, headache and labial herpes in the same time. I know that feces alone did not transmit HIV, but what if there was same blood; the contact between my skin and feces lasted 4/5 minutes I think.
Thank you very much for your reply.
Best Regards.
Luca