HIV risk through nude hugs and HJ: Teak Dr please help very worried

[MADDIE347]

Dear Doctor, Teak

I recently went to a massage parlor. The massage girl was fully nude and I was in my undies. I hugged her tightly and lightly kissed on her lips. There was no exchange of saliva. Post this I lightly caresed her breasts and kissed her breast too.

After a while I let her touch my penis, and both were nude. I hugged her again. Post this I let her give me a handjob with a condom on. There wasn't any penetration. I am extremely worried about my exposure. I am happily married and a father of two. I cannot come to terms with my mistake and fear the risk of being infected with HIV as I do not know her status. Please someone help me and make me understand of the risks that I have been exposed to.

Please help

Thanks

[LIZZIE LOU]

that would be because ro345 doesnt have a freaking clue what he's talking about.  anyone can post their bs on this forum.

[MADDIE347]

Apologies for the frequent post, However I just read a reply by Lizze as below to a question on HIV and Open Sore.

, 3 hours ago
hiv has been found to NOT be in vaginal lubrication...but rather up around the cervix.  nothing you did put you at risk for hiv.

This is completely contradictory with response of ro345, on what basis are these two conflicting replies? I trust the contents of this forum more than anything else but we should not have this contradictory remarks. Can someone please help me!!

[LIZZIE LOU]

please dont listen to ro345...aaarrrggghhh!!!!!!!

YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR THIS SITUATION.  PERIOD.  NO IFS, ANDS, OR BUTS ABOUT IT

:)

[LIZZIE LOU]

stop with your incessant incorrect replies on this forum.  take it elsewhere.  

[MADDIE347]

I have read that you cannot get HIV this way, still you recommend testing. I cannot live in this suspense. I have read posts by teak saying that No penetration = No risk, still why do you say testing. Please do not scare me so much. Please let me know the reality

[alienshadow]

youve been reported

[MADDIE347]

Dear All please help, i am extremely worried, especially my last point of my nude hug . I am unable to come to terms with myself and am losing sleep. Please help

[MADDIE347]

Dear Lizzie

When I hugged her tightly without my undies on, it may be possible that my penis tip could have touched her vagina, there was no penetration though. If she was hiv positive would I still be at no risk. Please help

[ro345]

MOVE ON

[LIZZIE LOU]

deal with your guilt and your hiv fear will magically go away :)

you did NOTHING to put you at risk for hiv.  it is spread through...unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse...sharing iv drug works with an infected person...and mother to child.  it is NOT spread from touching, sucking and kissing.