Community,
I apologize for the question but I was unable to find this situation. If there is a similiar question I missed I am sorry. I was with a costa rican prostiute. I massaged her back and legs with lotion, no genital contact. I then placed a surgical latex glove on and fingered and rubber her wet vagina. Prior to fingering her I put ky jelly on the glove. When putting the ky jelly on the glove it came out to fast and got on her leg and on my glove. I wiped off the excess from her leg and flicked it onto the floor. My memory is not good on if I used the gloved or ungloved hand to remove the excess lube from her leg. Also I do not remember if I wipe my hand on the sheet to get the excess ky jelly off my hand. After I was done fingering her I went into the bathroom and removed the glove and washed my hands. I then went to the other room and got a beer. This took 2-5 minute. I then was going to start to massaging her back and when I sat on the bed there was cool/wet sensation on and arounrd my buttock/anus area. I adjusted my position and massaged her. I have hemmriods that are always inflamed to some degree and intermitently bleeding. While I massaged her she touched my leg where I had received a cut/ burn a day before, it was not bleeding. It was tender so I immediated asked her to stop which she did. To the best of my knowledge her hand was clean. She left and I fell asleep. I forgot to shower. There was no sex --oral, vaginal or anal. It has has been 5 weeks and 1 day.Today I developed a small ulcer on the inside of my lower lip and it is tender and approx 2-3 mm in diameter. I have felt my lymphnode areas and can talk myself into feeling nodes but the truth is I can not say I have obviously enlarged nodes. My questions are these. Assume the area on he bed was ky jelly that she wipe onto the sheet after wiping off her vagina or lube from me fingering her and I sat on it with my anus coming into contact ( and the hemmriods) with this fluid, what is my risk of getting HIV? Should I test? Dose the ulcer or possible enlarged lymphnodes at 5 weeks change your answer?