I received blow job from male a day ago. I found out that he is HIV positive. Also got fingered by him too. He lied to me before we had an encounter. Do I go to er and stat pep. It's been 14 hours. Don't know his oral health or if he had cut on finger. When do I need to do ? Having so much anxiety . I am married and feel I ruined my life and my family. Can I have sex with wife? I searched on archives says no risk but I could not find any post who got bj from HIV positive person or fingered? Mr Vance, teak ms Lizzie please help. Thanks in advance.