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Dear every experts,
I have a problem with HIV. Today I have sex with a hooker. I arrived the room and we start kiss and took a shower(About 10 minutes). Then I require use condom before oral sex and sex. Then she took me a condom, I actually didn't see when she open it(I mean external packing). And I use that opened condom and have a few minute oral sex and sex with her. She said this one is small for me and ask to change a big one, that one I see she open it  so no problem. Then we finish sex.

Question: I really afraid she open the first condom before I came or when I took a shower she open it. She touch her vagina with that condom and left it there for me to use. Then maybe the condom already have HIV virus on it. To let me catch HIV.

Do I run in to trouble with HIV? Please help me! I'm still inside 72 hours. Do I need take that medicine?

Many thanks!
  
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3191940 tn?1447268717
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You didn't have a risk, and you know that, because you have been advised multiple times that the only sexual risk for HIV is having unprotected, penetrative anal or vaginal sex.  Whatever else you can think of, including this irrational train of thought, is not a risk for HIV.

My only advice to you is to stop seeing prostitutes.  It seems that every time you have protected sex with a prostitute, you come here panicked that something is wrong with the condom.  We are not able to help you with these irrational fears.  Only a therapist can do that.
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Thank you for your suggestion, I will stop meeting prostitutes!

I'm not always have problem with condom, I only want to know, if she open it early and do something bad: like touch her vaginal secretion early. If I use this condom, will I have problem with HIV?
I'm still inside 72 hours so sorry for ask again. I just want to know why, then I will not ask again!
Reread. "You didn't have a risk, and you know that, "
Sorry, no offense. I really don't know. The only thing I worry is inside there's her vaginal fluid in the condom and I take that condom. Does this result in fluid exchange and make me catch HIV? This is the only question I want to ask
NO.
Sorry, but can you tell me why?This will completely remove my fear
Because HIV is only transmitted in certain ways, which have been explained to you.  Every disease has a specific method of transmission - diseases don't just transmit in other ways because you're scared.  

MOVE ON from this event.  You don't have HIV.
Alright, thank you for your patient! It means a lot to me! My particular fear has robbed me of judgment.  I just want to hear expert answers and explanations over and over again. I do apologize!
One more question if possible. Do I need to worry about any other STDS? Thanks!
This forum is only for questions about HIV.  Since your HIV questions regarding this event have been fully answered, we are closing this thread.  You can ask about STDs here: https://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs-STIs/show/98

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