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Infection risk?

Three weeks ago I went to a sex worker.  I did not do any oral sex to her but I kissed AROUND her vagina (and I am not sure if she was using condom and I had something like a pallid in my mouth).

It would be my first experience but I ejaculated while she was making me erected with her hands. While I was touching her back, I felt wetness in my fingers. Most probably it was her sweat but since my nails were not cut, I am anxious it may be her blood. I did not recognized any blood but I can not be sure because the room was dark. Then I cleaned my penis with the towel she gave me (I might touch the towel with fingers with blood). When I came home, I realized that there was a gray layer on my penis (may it be because of my semen?).

Now I am not exactly diarrhea but my excretion system is working more than as usual (The requlation of my excretion and my excrement have changed) and I have one pallid or herpes in my mouth. There is some irritation in my balls (it is also very hot here). My throat is a little bit sensitive. I am checking my weight regularly and there is no change in my weight. Am I under any risk? Should I take a test? If I should, when should I take this test?
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480448 tn?1426948538
A month later and you are STILL obsessing about this?  None of these little details matter...you were NOT at risk!!!

If you cannot accept this, then you need to seek some professional counseling to help you move on.  Seriously.
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Thank you for your answers. I only have one thing. I realized that when I kissed around her vagina, I had a red part in my mouth. I think it was not a wound but it was because of some excitement, maybe pallied because of excitement. Does it cause any risk? and I have been something like diarrhea for one week.
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277836 tn?1359666174
move on you dont have hiv end of story and quit reading about people who do
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What part of you didn't have a risk is it that you don't understand? Hearing loss is not due to HIV infection which you don't have to begin with.
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journals.cambridge.org/production/action/cjoGetFulltext?fulltextid=1100016
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http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2607208
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Hearing loss is not a symptom of HIV. You didn't even have a risk of contracting HIV in the first place.
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I have a hearing loss in one of my ears today. I had not read anything that tells hearing loss is the symptoms of HIV infection. But when i had this hearing loss, i found that it is one of the symptoms.
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stop searching the internet for symptoms of hiv this would only make your life more mosrable. you had a zero risk situation so just forget about it. I did not listen to Teak and LIZZIE LOU and eventually got every symptom in the book and still tested -ve way past the window period.
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Yes, you are right. I am searching and reading the internet about hiv. I am under stress and even some pains started in my stomach. I think the regulation of acids in my stomach is changing. Thank you for your advice. I will stop reading about it.
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186166 tn?1385259382
anxiety can cause physical symptoms.

i'm sure you are searching and reading the internet about hiv...STOP!!!!!  this is THE worst thing you can do.  every symptom that you read about...you will eventually get.  that's how anxiety and the mind work.

YOU DID NOT HAVE A RISK OF CONTRACTING HIV...NO IFS, ANDS, OR BUTS ABOUT IT.
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Thank you. In fact having herpes while kissing her, and changes in my excretion system and having herpes in my mouth after three weeks is worrying me.
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You did not have a risk of contracting HIV and no you do not need to test.
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