Anal sex and condom risk

[Artvan75]

Hello everyone, I have been looking for a place to ask some of my questions on my HIV concerns. I am a 20 years old male student who had sex for the first time with an older man who has a much more experience than I do. He told me that he gets tested every 3 months and that he is HIV negative. Despite this, we had decided he should use a condom. Since I was having sex for the first time, his in and out movements were slow and he ejaculated after 5 minutes when he was out and his penis got a bit flaccid. However, he waited one or two minutes in order to get a new erection in the same condom and penetrated me again. I am therefore wondering if his sperm could have " slipped out of the condom or ascended towards the base of the condom during the time his penis got flaccid (although the change between the state of his penis when it was erect and flaccid wasn't drastic) and if somehow the sperm could have gotten out or does the condom prevent the sperm from getting out even when the penis gets flaccid ? Could such a small quantity cause transmission or is the risk minor and the sex safe ?

[123Amb]

Hi Vance2335. Could you pleas explain is this not a risk exactly ? Is it because the virus in the semen could not survive in the condom for a few instants and infect the partner for the second penetration or is it because the condom is designed in such a way that it doesn't let the semen slip out even when the penis gets more flaccid ?

[Vance2335]

This would not be a risk. Always use condoms.