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Is there a risk

Massage centre she sucked or bit my nipples a bit , she got excited and inserted finger in vagina briefly
Sucked her breasts too

Worried about Risk. Stopped sleeping with wife ( I got some raised pink spots in the hair follicles in right inner thigh ) is this a ars symptom
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  ( hand, maybe blood, maybe cut, maybe fluids, mouth, breast milk, etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe. Any hiv test would be a waste of time.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
No risk=no hiv disease=no ARS symptoms. Move on from this non-event.
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Thanks a lot . So irrespective of any oral activities  it's not a risk ? ( Only above are ..)
Risks for HIV transmission include unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. So, no. Oral is not a risk. Neither is anything to do with breasts, biting, or sucking. Neither is fingering. NOTHING you did was a risk.
Okay understood but having some kind of small red thing in inner thing and some itchiness in ground area . Are there any symptoms to be worries of ?
We've been very clear in saying you had zero risk. If you had zero risk, then nothing is related to hiv. End of story. Your anxiety and rumination trying to tie a non risk event to hiv is only in your mind as you had NO risk. Nothing to say beyond that.
No, you don't understand at all, otherwise you wouldn't keep asking irrelevant questions. Speaking of which, since you didn't answer my QUESTION above I'll do it for you. Answer> No there wasn't a penis in my anus when she sucked my nipples and she didn't inject me with a hollow needle while she did the sucking so I should move on instead of wasting my own time asking purposeless irrelevant questions..
Sorry thanks
There is no need to be sorry, especially since you can go back to your wife.
Now you know what QUESTION to ask yourself next time you wonder if you had a risk.

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