POSSIBLE SEXUAL EXPLOITATION/RAPE??

[erwinkasha]

Hi
I am a 27 year old asian male, straight orientation. Never have had sex before except oral. Last night I traveled from one city to another in the same service I used to take several times before also. Yesterday, the guy next to me showed signs of not straight orientation.

I was also wearing a very loose pant with no under pants. My belt could not hold in tight enough at my hip. I was not drugged, woke up a few times because of the jerk. Once, I felt as if he kissed me in the neck, but ignore it. Since, I had back pain, I slept in a position showing my back to him.

Once I got down, I started getting pains in my *** hole. I am still having it. Its not un tolerable, but very much noticeable and painful.

I AM VERY VERY SCARED AS TO WHETHER I WOULD HAVE BEEN TAKEN ADVANTAGE/PENETRATED FROM BEHIND BY THAT GUY. WOULD I HAVE SLEPT THROUGH IT? AGAIN I REPEAT I WOKE UP AT LEAST THREE TIMES FROM THE TIME I SLEPT AND THE TIME I GOT DOWN!!

Kindly help me. I am worried why this unfortunate thing has to happen to me..

very very eagerly waiting for your reply!

Thanks

[RainLover71]

Enough now please--had your rectum been penetrated it would have been obvious--it never happened.Let this go.

[erwinkasha]

Thanks Lizzie. Now my pain correlatoon also seems to be stupid. To be completely honest, I was scared that either I slept through or I had some wierd scenes in my dreams- hence what I thought as dreams where actually him doing me and I forgo it when I wokeup. I jus want to vent this also out as I dun wanna hide anything from experts.
I think, this also would sound very wierd, but Ijus wanna talk it out.
BOTTOMLINE IT LOOKS, IF AT ALL HE TRIED I WOULD HAVE WOKEN UP ON COMPLETE SENSES, RITE? KINDLY READ IT COMPLETELY ONCE.
THANKS A MILION

[LIZZIE LOU]

ooops...should have read:

the pain you felt the next day, and still feel now, is NOTHING compared to the pain you would have felt if you had been penetrated without your "participation".  there is NO POSSIBLE WAY that you were penetrated without your "knowledge".

[LIZZIE LOU]

"THE BAD PAIN IN MY RECTUM THE NEXT DAY INCIDENTALLY ACTUALLY FREAKED ME OUT MORE. IT STILL PERSISTS BTW. :( "

the pain you felt the next day, and still feel now, is NOTHING compared to the pain you would have felt if you had been penetrated without your knowledge.  there is NO POSSIBLE WAY that you were penetrated without your participation.

you stated that you've had the pain before...see your dr...sounds like your hemorrhoids might be flared up.

you do NOT have a hiv concern.

[RainLover71]

you're welcome but I would totally forget about this and move on with life.

[erwinkasha]

Nurse,

Just wanted to know if u have anything to say here. Also, I am very sure he could not have penetrated my THROUGH my pants/under pants as you asked. Since, he could have easily brought down my pant and with no underpant inside for his convenience, was thinking whether he could have done it then. THE BAD PAIN IN MY RECTUM THE NEXT DAY INCIDENTALLY ACTUALLY FREAKED ME OUT MORE. IT STILL PERSISTS BTW. :(

I think, two experts have already dismissed this theory. Just waiting for your word once for my confidence.

Thanks RAINLOVER, TEAK AND HOPING TO HEAR BACK NURSE. HOPE THERE IS NO EXCEPTION IN MY CASE.

[Teak]

You do not have an HIV concern.

[RainLover71]

YES--move on please.

[erwinkasha]

So, I should go back to doc for possible hemarroids re-surfacing and get rid of this theory completely from my mind right?

[Teak]

No way possible.

[erwinkasha]

Just following up on one final word fron you or anyother expert.


Thankd a million

[erwinkasha]

Hi
I was travelling in a bus. Its a sleeper and its double birth and this stranger slept in my nxt bed. I was wearing a loose pant which was worn low on my bum with no underpant as I din hv a clean one. He might hv had easy access by lowering my pants.

But I am confused as u said how he cud hv penetrated me without my knowledge wen I m asleep. This doubt became fear only because all of a sudden I strtd having bad anal pains out of nowhere when I woke up and he too din put himself across a straight guy.

So, can I safely assume theres no way he wud gotten into me anally without me noticing it despite asleep. Its a sheer coincidence my hemaroids wud hv come to surface at the sametime?

[nursegirl6572]

It sounds as though you are talking about being on a bus or something?  Where were you?

You HONESTLY think he would have been able to access your anus THROUGH your pants and penetrated you and you wouldn't know it?  That is comepletely irrational thinking...you need to get some professional help.

[RainLover71]

Had your rectum been penetrated you would have known & woke up instantly.

[erwinkasha]

Sorry if it sounds very stupid. The following freaked me out:
1. His behavior/looks
2. Sudden pain and its still there now. I used to have these, when I used to get hemarroids/fissures and that was more than a year back. Sheer coincidence?
3. Access to my part was a little easy as I mentioned due to loose pants and no under pants..

I assume it will be really painful and hence I could not have slept through?

[Teak]

Totally irrational thoughts. Had you been penetrated you would have known without a doubt and you wouldln't have slept.

[RainLover71]

You would have known if you were raped by this person.It would have been obvious.This never happened.Please stop worrying.