Oral Sex and HIV Symptoms

[pebertos]

I had an unprotected oral sex with a prostitute 9 weeks ago (the first one last for 30 sec as I was really nervous than she tried again and the second one last for 2 minutes). After 2 weeks I had diarrhoea, fever (99.5 F), and profound fatigue. I had an anti HIV 1+2 test (fourth generation) at 22 days that came negative and another one at 55 days that also came negative. After that I had unprotected sex with my wife and 2 weeks later she appears with the same symptoms (diarrhoea, fever (99.5 F), muscle soar, and profound fatigue). Could the test be wrong and I have AIDS and transmitted it to my wife? What are the symptoms of the Acute HIV phase? I don't know if I should run another test but I'm desperate, what do you think? Please help.

[Teak]

You were never at risk of contracting HIV and you have to have HIV before you can progress to AIDS.

[pebertos]

Teak,

I really mean transmit HIV to my wife, sorry. Do you think that my tests are reliable or I need to wait to the 12 week mark. And, do you know the HIV symptoms as I quite confuse with them (some sites say high fever others say low fever...)? Thank you.

[Teak]

Reread the reply that was given.

[pebertos]

Teak, Sorry to insist and I know that the risk to get HIV from an insertive oral sex is very low but why my wife developed the same symptoms as mine after I had sex with her? I tested for herps and sifilis at the 22 day after the risk contact and they were also negative.
Thank you again.

[Teak]

She needs to see a doctor if she has a concern. It has nothing to do with HIV.