Thank you very much for that I will try and move on from this thank you
The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.
No one has ever gotten HIV from handjobs, kissing, or receiving a blow job. You will not be the first. You didn't need to test at all, and you definitely don't need to test again. Whatever is causing your lymph node to swell has nothing to do with HIV.