Hi All,
I am extremely frightened and my anxiety is high. I am an 32 heterosexual male. Over the last seven months I have had about 6-7 unprotected oral sex episodes. 3 were with strippers/massage parlor workers. A few have led to ejac but only with a girl who is not a sex worker. Lately i have noticed a lump the size of a lima bean in my neck and swelling in my groin on the left side. I also think the left side of my neck behind my ear is swollen. I do have bad anxiety and im worried because I'm in a comitted relationship. I do not have a fever but yestersay I started having diahrea. My last exposure was almost 8 weeks ago but I noticed the first lump at seven weeks. Is this ARS since my exposures were high risk? I've called several HIV hotlines and get differing answers. Please please help me.