get your self test ...because now u r in what if business to hiv....nothing will peace your mind , no matter what we answer here or other side , oral with out ejaculation is not,,, ...
for kissing part u both must have open source or sore , where the blood can possible get exchange ,
if u had sore only and the other person u are save ....
NO RISK OF HIV if u ask me
How sure are you? Wouldn't there be a risk if i had a open sore in my mouth?