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Pls reply to my exposures. Any chance of risk

Hi everyone.
Happy new year 2012.

My recent exposure was with a sex worker in US . No anal , no oral, no vaginal. She rubbed my penis with her hand for few minutes. She had a very deep cut hours before on the finger she touched my Penni's. It was very deep cut and she had a band aid . Later on we continued with body rubs for few minutes and she did sat on my dick and did some rub with her ***** like she is on my top, where I have my clothes on.

She touched my chest with her cut finger. Do we get HIV since had cut on her finger and drops on my Penni's and later when we did rubbing gone inside. She touched inner and outer skin and blood may fallen . I am uncircumsized.

Before this incident I used to got massage parlor and have some body rubs, with breast on my chest and hugging nakedly and once handjob during table shower.

The above massage parlor was five times in past six times before my last test. I didn't involve in penetrating sex or oral other than handjob and the recent with sex worker was her fingers cut very deep one and worried of blood entering Penni's.
I am really scared to death. Please help me if any chance and do I need to go for testing. Me and wife are planning for  second baby  and I am worried.
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if blood really came on the mocous membranes inside the foreskin here was a small risk. but it is really small. maybe you should do a test for this after 12 weeks. the touching on the breast is no risk.
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The incident happened for a 10 secs and she had a band aid. Does the blood comes out of the band aid? .
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Can anyone please reply?
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i dont know if it came out of the bandaid. you must know that. if blood came on the inner foreskin there was a risk if not than there was no risk
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Actually it happened for seconds as she touched it. When I asked she touched with another hand. Even if she touched with another hand right and she didn't have cut but what is when she touched her right hand with left and if some blood of left hand finger touched right hand and then when she touched my dick it may fall on there . Is there any risk like this. She touched for seconds.
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Disregard the post by mschuster, it is totally incorrect.

This was NO risk whatsoever.  HIV is transmitted by:

1.  Unprotected anal or vaginal sex
2.  Sharing IV drug works
3.  From mother to infant

That's it.

mschuster...please do not advise people on this forum when you are not educated about HIV.  You are here asking your own questions, you have NO business giving people advice.  
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Thanks Nursegirl for your response.

I called the sex worker today also and asked her about the blood, she said she dont remember, but she said she had a band aid and she touched my pennis for a max of 1/2 min. what she also told was she had bleeding just hours before she came on the day and she wored a band aid.
Based on your medical knoweldge, can blood come out of a cut ( it was deep ), with band aid there ..
1. i mean can blood come out of band aid..?.
2. if she touched with right hand my pennis, what if she touched her left hand and then she got small blood on her right hand and then from right hand to pennis.
3. As far as i remember it was for seconds she touched.. but she touched on my inner skin and outerskin.
I am really parnoid of this incident.. i asked her today she said dont worry.. but she didnt say she didnt have any diesease..
she had a 8 months kid as she says.. she might have been tested for the hiv when she became pregnnant right..
Me and my wife are planning to have a second baby and  i am feeling very stressed by thinking of this.
at what months do doctors check for pregnnat ladies for this kind of tests.
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480448 tn?1426948538
ONE of your questions are relevant because you had NO risk, period!!!

Put this behind you once and for all.
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480448 tn?1426948538
Correction....NONE, not ONE.
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do you say no risk if blood drops on pennis inner skin when she touched my pennis inner skin. one of my friend he is a doctor and he was saying that the risk is there since it is a blood and i am getting confused and making me worrry.
do you think blood can come out of band aid if it was 4 hrs before cut deeply .. since you are a nurse i am askin this question.. i really appreciate.
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Can anyone reply?
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Even if blood came out of the band-aid,it is still zero risk because the Hiv virus becomes inactive once exposed to air and is unable to infect you.You're safe.Stop worrying for nothing.
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But there could millions of them right , even if some of them die there could be some active out of million and they can get inside my Penni's opening or can go inside mucus membrane of inner skin, this keeping me worried.
After she touched I kept my Penni's inside pants and she sat on my dick and did lot of rubbing like doing sex as she is on top of me. After that I rubbed against her body till I ejaculated. With this the blood can go inside inner skin or Penni's opening.

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This forum can't be of help to anxiety driven questions. Try the anxiety forum or a therapist. You have been advised that you had no risk by 2 well now 3 people.
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Hi Vance,

Do you really think there is no risk at all.. this keeping me worired since she had very deep cut and had band aid. She touched for 1/2 min only. ( not sure of which  hand she touched ).
today i called her and asked can you get the test done for me .. she said she wont get tested and said she will get tested every 3 months. i dont know how should i trust and she was saying we didnt do any sex why are you freaking... i told her i was freaking because of cut of her finger.
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You are freaking out for nothing and what you experienced is not a mode of transmission for Hiv.End of story.
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