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Plz answer my questions

Dear doctors
     I am worried about hiv because I have dozens of unprotecteb oral sex and protected sexual intercourse with sex workers. I think the condoms were not broken because after ejaculation I could see there was some semen in the condoms.The condoms were given by the sex workers.I am worried about there were some little hole on the surface of the condoms.I am not sure when oral sex whether the girls had bleeding cuts or ulcers.It was the biggest trouble that in some times I had some red dots on my glans and they were felt a little pain in oral sex.I dont know they were bleeding or not bleeding.One more time on another occasion,I had massage,the girl helped me self-abuse with her saliva which was treated as slipping agent.I am afraid there was blood in  the saliva.And After the action my glans felt pain when I passed warter.I think the girl made a cut on my glans.I am worried about the blood-saliva was on the cut.
I have many sympts.I love a girl now.She is healthy.I am sure that she dont have hiv.She want to make love with me without condoms.  
Doctors,am I at risk of hiv?Do I have hiv?Do I need to test hiv?Can I make love with my girl without condoms?Plz help me.
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Nothing that you are worrying about it a concern for HIV.
Condoms do not have little holes in them, when they break it is very very obvious.

Saliva is not infectious with or without blood and actually inhibits HIV.

Oral sex is not a risk.

Protected sex is not a risk.

Your symptoms mean nothing and are probably more due to anxiety or something simple, definitley not HIV.

1. You are not at risk for HIV
2. From these incidents you do not have HIV
3. You do not need to test
4. Yes you can have sex with your girlfriend

Chill out, you have nothing to worry about.
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Could I get your suggestions about my worried questions?
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Unless you two have tested together do not dispense from the use of condoms.
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Do u mean I have a risk for hiv?
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Reread your thread.
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My girls I am sure that she is ok because she did a test some days ago and she lived with me these days.I am worried about myself .So I came here and asked you questions because I am worried about that whether I am at risk of hiv or not.You said both of us should  go to test.She is ok.U mean I have the risk for hiv?
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Reread your thread.
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I dont know your meaning.Reread my thread?what is your meaning?I discribed my actions.I dont really know you meaning.
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I am confused beacause I dont know your meaning clearly.
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Do u mean I am at risk of hiv because of my actions which I discribed?Right?
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???You let me reread my thread.It means you think I am at risk of hiv?
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Both of you test so make sure neither one of you have been exposed before you stop using condoms for vaginal and anal sex.
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I said she had a test before and I am sure that her result is ok and she lived with me these days.So she didnt make love with others.Now I am worried myself.I dont know my actions is dangerous or not.ZamZam4 told me I am ok .But I want to get more suggestion.So I ask u and LIZZLE.So plz tell me AM I at risk of hiv?Do I need to test for hiv?Can I make love with my girl without condom?Thank you.
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I would hope your g/f would not have unprotected sex with you until she see your test result.
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You suggest me to go to test.You think I am not safe.I still have the risk for hiv because of my actions.Right?
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I did not say that at all, but before you suspend the use of condoms you should test not only for HIV but other STDs.
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I think I should test STDs.But for hiv you didnt say I am at risk of it. Why I test?Isnt it contradictory?
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Could you help me?I am confused.One said I am ok,no need to test.The other one told me you went to test though I dont say you are at risk of hiv.Who Can I Comply with?
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I think I should test STDs.But for hiv you didnt say I am at risk of it. Why I test?Isnt it contradictory?
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Why?if I am safe,there is no need to test hiv.But you let me to test,it means I am at risk of hiv otherwise why u told me to do the hiv-test?U said " I did not say that at all".what is your meaning?I really understand.zamzam4's words and yours are different,which I can believe?
I was happy when I saw the zamzam4's suggestion.but what you said made me confused.What can i do?I have the psychological block for hospital......
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Everyone that is sexually active should have a full sexual health check up annually.
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Then do you think do i have the risk for hiv because of my actions?
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you did not have a risk for hiv from the exposures you described in your post.
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U mean i can make love with my girl without condoms.Am i right?
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