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HIV risk/exposure from backseat situation.

Hey MedHelp forums, I just want to say I appreciate the time many members dedicate to this forum in order to help people assess their risks when it comes to HIV. I am sure I know what the answer is to my question but I just want some assurance and I figured this was the place to do so, so without further ado, here's what happened:

Last Friday I met a young lady. I decided to drive her to the beach but knowing I am deathly scared of having sex without a condom with a random woman, I didn't bring any so I wouldn't have sex with her period. Well, we both get in the back seat and after some intense kissing, fingering, and what not... she has her pants off (but thong on) and I have my boxers on. She sits on top of my lap and begins grinding on me. At one point, my penis became exposed through the hole in my boxers (she had a thong on the whole time). I know I didn't penetrate her and I didn't even feel any wetness/warmth and when I asked her a few days after our episode, she said all we did was rub on each other through our underwear. Hypothetically speaking, if I did some into contact with any kind of fluid, would I be at risk?

Also, when sucking on her breast, I tasted a bitter taste (I know it wasn't breast milk because she's not pregnant and the only time a woman can produce breast milk is after she has a child). What fluid is this and would it be a risk as well?

Thanks for reading, hope to hear from you guys.
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lol, 'preciate it... that's all. Thanks guys.
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It doesn't matter even if it was breast milk,adults can't contract Hiv from infected breast milk because their immune systems are strong,only infants can and your not an infant.I would move on from this incident.There was no peneration of any kind.Your safer then the crown jewels.
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Last question, short and simple:

Even despite w/e it was that came out of her breasts? Since I'm sure it wasn't milk...
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Hiv is not transmitted via fingering,kissing,grinding or sucking breasts.At no stage did you ever have an Hiv risk.
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Thanks Teak. That's all I wanted to read!
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HIV takes unprotected penetrative vagina or anal sex of which you had none. You don't have an HIV concern.
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