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[eagle55]

dear doc HHH,
Recently i ended with a 10 month long relationshp with my ex-gf. I am
a virgin and we never had intercourse. However, around may 20th, we
did make out once, during which I happened to kiss her below the belt.
not near the vaginal orifice, but somwhere near/above the clit i suppose.
However, she was standing and i was kneeling so you can figure out
whre exactly it could hav been. I kissed here there only once..for
about say 3 seconds, and i am not sure whether she was wet at that
part. but taking the worst case scenario, if she was. She had told me
that she was a virgin too. However, she also told me of a month long
relationship she had been when she was 14 in schoo with a boy of the same age. When i asked her
about he physical status, she got disgusted and we have been in very
bad terms since. At the end of the 7th week after this encounter, i
fell ill with a mild fever for three days and recovered. At the nd of
around the 9th week, i had a bad soar throat, which lasted for a week
i suppose. howver. i think that was because a bad chill i caught due
to exposure. I accidently happened to have ntered a cold ac room
dirctly after a long walk in the hot july sun in delhi. since then
have been keeping fine, but for  the anxiety bit. Can you please
suggest if i need testing for hiv? and for my gf..is it possible to
appear pefectly nomal after 5 1/2 years of infection?

i will be extremely extremely extremely grateful to you for your help.

[eagle55]

Thank You all.
I am extremely grateful to all for your kind help and support. This community is doing a great job.

Regards and best wishes.

[LIZZIE LOU]

as you have been told...you were NEVER at risk.  it doesnt matter what kind of spin you put on the story...the answer will remain the same.

accept your status and move on with your life.  you have been assessed as not having a risk...this forum has nothing left to offer.

[eagle55]

Can I please get this last bit of info? Kindly reply.

I will be extremely grateful.

Regards.

[eagle55]

Thanks Teak and nursegirl.

I had one last question. Is it possible to contract hiv incase my kiss happened to have been in contact with a surface which in turn happened to have been in contact with my fingers somewhat a little wet with the vaginal secretions? I had put my fingers in only once...and probably not for more than 2-3 seconds and surely not a long way up. But i dont remember if they rubbed with the potion i had kissed.

Thank you.

Regards.

[nursegirl6572]

NO risk whatsoever.

[eagle55]

I am sorry if my last post came along as rude. Was never intended to be so. I am just a bit too anxious and stressed..just wanted to be sure.

Thanks.

[Vance2335]

How about listen to Teak because his answer is 100% and you will not find anyone on this forum who is going to disargee with his assestment.

[eagle55]

Thanks Teak..for your reassurance...can i have a few more opinions....?

I am grateful.

Regards.

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk of contracting HIV. Not even close.