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Oral Sex, HIV or STD risk?

Hi guys,

I did something stupid few hours ago.

I went to an escort house and received a blowjob. Maximum 1 min. She sucked my penis with condom on. The only fear I have is that she opened the condom "it was new and durex", put it on my penis, put her mouth on it and started to roll it down. I didn't have an erection still , so she started to rub my penis with her hand until I erected and she did the blowjob. I removed the condom later and I think it has no tear "hopefully". But I can't be very sure as my mind is trying to manipulating me.
I Didn't do any kind of penetration to her. That's all. I guess the only part of her that touched my naked penis was her hand, nothing more.

Am I at risk of HIV or any STD? I feel very stupid to do that. I wasn't drunk but I'm anxious person so I'm worried and a little confused.

The escort said she is free of any infection but I don't trust her. I'm afraid that the described way of putting a condom is incorrect. Can you help me please?

The escort was black and I'm circumstanced man living in Dubai, if that would help by any mean.

Thanks a lot.
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Thank you a lot. Your answers really relaxed my mind and killed all of the worries I had. Wish you the best.

I was thinking of stop playing at all tbh, but whenever I will play, I will play extra extra safe.
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You do not need any test for HIV for sure because you were never exposed. Burning in penis should go away in a few days as this could be due to any common infection. If you see any kind of discharge from your urethra or the problem persists for more than a week, I would suggest you to see a doctor, as this could be a common curable STD (Chlamydia or Gonorrhoea). For details, you may go the STD forum.

Fortunately, it is God's blessing that HIV, the most scaring incurable infection is not easy to catch. Its transmission takes place as a result of infectious body fluids INSIDE the body because the virus is too fragile to survive outside the host's body. Therefore HIV transmission is possible only through unprotected vaginal and/or anal penetration when we talk about the sexual routes of transmission.

To stay healthy, always play safe. Never try to come in contact without a condom in between.

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Thank you very much, appreciate your help.

So, there's no need for any kind of tests? Shall I move on and forget the whole story?  I feel little burning in my penis but I guess it's too soon to show any sign of infection and that maybe the latex effect.

Also, what are your advises for me if similar situations happened in the future? Right now every time I have any kind of exposure I get freaked out from any infection no matter what. What should I technically do with any exposure to stop this worries please?

Again, thanks a lot.
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366749 tn?1544695265
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Protection means protection. You were never exposed to any risk of HIV from this exposure. Oral sex, even without a condom carries NO risk, so relax, you are fine.

Unprotected oral sex however does carry a risk of transmission of other curable STD's however this risk eliminates when a condom comes in between.

Race, religion or region are irrelevant when it comes to the transmission of the infection. However circumcised males have relatively lower HIV risk due to smaller area of exposure of mucus membrane
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