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Hello Everyone,
2 weeks ago I've met a guy of 18 years old. We chatted a bit and then when we when to the restroom of the coffee shop, he decided to give me a blowjob. I ejaculated in his mouth. After ejaculating, i feel like a burning sensation when peeing..i cleaned my penis with tissue provided in the toilet.. Seems like therr were smalls cuts at the front of my foreskin. I went home and the next day i felt very itchy at the penis base. While scratching i saw a scratch on the base. The next day i was diagnosed as covid 19 positive. Mild symptoms and after 7 days I was negative and going back to work. On the 9th day, while having a shower, i saw a small pimple with white head on thigh, one near penis and underarm.. I started panicking. I went to sleep and that night i had chills and night sweats. I woke up with an inflamed throat and phlegm. At 10 am i saw 3 red fluids like pimples on my checks. I removed them from my face. Every night i have night sweats and can't sleep well. Added to that a white tongue with small pimples on the roof of mouth. On the 16th day, the pimples appeared again on my face.
After that i started to feel a hot sensation and discomfort in my right ear.Maybe an ear infection. I'm still having the night sweats.
The guy informed me that he was HIV negative and that it was the first time he sucked someone(dont know if true) and i for me, I ve got sucked by a friend 4 years ago and never had sex after that.
My questions are as followed :
1) Did a got HIV due to these symptoms?
2) Im i at risk of HIV?
3) Why im a having these symptoms?
Please amswer to my post.. Im young and worrying a lot!!
Jonas from Mauritius
2 weeks ago I've met a guy of 18 years old. We chatted a bit and then when we when to the restroom of the coffee shop, he decided to give me a blowjob. I ejaculated in his mouth. After ejaculating, i feel like a burning sensation when peeing..i cleaned my penis with tissue provided in the toilet.. Seems like therr were smalls cuts at the front of my foreskin. I went home and the next day i felt very itchy at the penis base. While scratching i saw a scratch on the base. The next day i was diagnosed as covid 19 positive. Mild symptoms and after 7 days I was negative and going back to work. On the 9th day, while having a shower, i saw a small pimple with white head on thigh, one near penis and underarm.. I started panicking. I went to sleep and that night i had chills and night sweats. I woke up with an inflamed throat and phlegm. At 10 am i saw 3 red fluids like pimples on my checks. I removed them from my face. Every night i have night sweats and can't sleep well. Added to that a white tongue with small pimples on the roof of mouth. On the 16th day, the pimples appeared again on my face.
After that i started to feel a hot sensation and discomfort in my right ear.Maybe an ear infection. I'm still having the night sweats.
The guy informed me that he was HIV negative and that it was the first time he sucked someone(dont know if true) and i for me, I ve got sucked by a friend 4 years ago and never had sex after that.
My questions are as followed :
1) Did a got HIV due to these symptoms?
2) Im i at risk of HIV?
3) Why im a having these symptoms?
Please amswer to my post.. Im young and worrying a lot!!
Jonas from Mauritius
Just to reinforce that you had no risk for HIV. HIV is only transmitted through vaginal or anal unprotected sex or sharing IV drug needles. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. This was zero risk and you don't need to worry.
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (mouth, lips saliva, etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are only 3 ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
This is just an hiv prevention forum so if you have a real medical issue see doc for a diagnosis, because you have been wasting your time trying to connect it with hiv. Pimples are a non event and the sweats are likely your imagination caused by fear of a disease - that you don't have. You can get long haul Covid even if you had a mild initial bout. Only a doc can provide a proper diagnosis.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
This is just an hiv prevention forum so if you have a real medical issue see doc for a diagnosis, because you have been wasting your time trying to connect it with hiv. Pimples are a non event and the sweats are likely your imagination caused by fear of a disease - that you don't have. You can get long haul Covid even if you had a mild initial bout. Only a doc can provide a proper diagnosis.
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Thanks a lot
Today, new rashes appeared on my face. They are like the molluscum contagiosum described on websites and associated with HIV. I really don't know what to think or do. Can it be an STD?
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The first step to peace is to stop googling for symptoms cold turkey, and stop looking at your body trying to find hiv symptoms. Docs can't diagnose hiv from symptoms so no one here pays attention to them and you shouldn't either. You don't have any medical training and Google has no useful diagnostic for hiv - which you don't have anyway.
hiv can't mysteriously infect someone who didn't have any exposure. See doc about any health concerns instead of wasting your time trying to diagnose without training.
hiv can't mysteriously infect someone who didn't have any exposure. See doc about any health concerns instead of wasting your time trying to diagnose without training.
Thanks a lot. Just another question.. Can white headed pimples on foreskin and papules on face, sore throat, tiredness, night sweats, feet sweats, shortness of breath can be associated to a STD?
This forum is only for questions about HIV. Since your questions about HIV have been fully answered, you can ask about STDs in our STDs forum here: https://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs---STIs/show/98
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