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Scared of catching HIV

Sorry I am very stressed and have anxiety and very scared which would cause me to mess up on my question.
I went to a asian massage parlor  2-4 weeks ago and only got a hand job. I went to the same place probably 2-3 weeks later while starting to have symptoms for cold. Second time I went I french kissed girl and received unprotected oral sex for 5-10seconds. I also had an ulcer on my gum because my toothbrush slipped couple of days before. One week later from the second visit I had white tongue and went to a clinic and was told it was thrush. I asked the doc if it could be hiv related and he said no and not from kissing anybody. Doc gave me some tablet I am taking and it is not going away. I had alot of stress for 5 days after the second visit because I thought I might be infected and was able to calm myself down with searching the archives here. But after the thrush I am flipping out have no appetite can not concentrate. All I can think about is what if I am positive and what would happen. Would my friends support me? Would I be able to work with stress? What if I lose my job can I pay for my drugs? Please help me.

Could I have contracted hiv from a hand job, french kissing bunch of times with an ulcer or unprotected oral for 5-10 seconds?
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No risk
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It's the guilt-- 100%
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ty RainLover71.

The two trips I took to the massage parlor was my first time and feeeling guilty probably made me very stressed. I am kind of starting to calm a little and can eat food. I hope I can get my anxiety and stress under control because I am having a very hard time concentrating at work.
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Thrush can be a result of anything,but you had no risk so it has nothing to do with HIV.
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ty Vance2335 and Diver58. Do you think my thrush was caused by stress+anxiety? Any ideas on how to calm myself from the stress and anxiety that I suffered for almost 1.5 week.
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How about the unprotected oral sex with  no condom for 5-10seconds and kissing bunch of times with ulcer ? Sorry for asking the same question again.
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Hand to genital contact carries ZERO risk of HIV transmission... Zilch,,, Zero I repeat. You were never exposed to HIV
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