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Should I get tested for hiv...
Ok I'll try my hardest to make this short.
I have a girlfriend and I'm a cheater. In late January a female I met gave me unprotected oral sex, then we had protected vaginal sex. After we were done I removed the condom, but I realized some white fluids near the bottom of my penis close to my pubic hairs. Next encounter was within the first week of February, same story except for one thing different. She performed unprotected oral on me and I preformed unprotected oral on her.... then afterward we had protected vaginal sex and I noticed a lot of fluids (or salvia) on the same spot of my penis. I forgot to mention so I'll throw this in real quick, after each encounter I tested the integrity of the comdom by blowing air into it and see if any would come out, and none did so I then throw the condoms away. Next encounter a female preformed unprotected oral on me for about 2 minutes then we had protected vaginal sex and this time I didn't see any fluids at the bottom of my penis and I also put air into the condom to see if any would come out and it didn't. then we went to sleep (naked) and we were cuddling and I was laying behind her. When we woke up she told me I woke up hard and started giggling. Does this mean as I was sleep she put my penis inside her? R she was rubbing my penis on her vagina? I got tested on march 7th for all stds and hiv antibody test and I tested negative for all, so I know that clears the girl from January, possibly the girl from February and the last girl in my sure if it clears her. Do I need to get tested again? Was this a risk to contract hiv in the first place? Does hiv get transmitted by vaginal fluids on shaft of penis? I have unprotected sex with my girlfriend (both vaginal and oral) that's why I used a condom with everyone else. But not I feel sick, I had a harsh headache and a runny nose and I felt a little dizzy. No sore throat or cough or diraherra but it still has me worried because I just got sick after my last encounter 2-3 weeks after. If I transmit anything to her I wouldn't know what to say because she has no clue of what I done... please help...
I'm sorry for the long paragraph
I have a girlfriend and I'm a cheater. In late January a female I met gave me unprotected oral sex, then we had protected vaginal sex. After we were done I removed the condom, but I realized some white fluids near the bottom of my penis close to my pubic hairs. Next encounter was within the first week of February, same story except for one thing different. She performed unprotected oral on me and I preformed unprotected oral on her.... then afterward we had protected vaginal sex and I noticed a lot of fluids (or salvia) on the same spot of my penis. I forgot to mention so I'll throw this in real quick, after each encounter I tested the integrity of the comdom by blowing air into it and see if any would come out, and none did so I then throw the condoms away. Next encounter a female preformed unprotected oral on me for about 2 minutes then we had protected vaginal sex and this time I didn't see any fluids at the bottom of my penis and I also put air into the condom to see if any would come out and it didn't. then we went to sleep (naked) and we were cuddling and I was laying behind her. When we woke up she told me I woke up hard and started giggling. Does this mean as I was sleep she put my penis inside her? R she was rubbing my penis on her vagina? I got tested on march 7th for all stds and hiv antibody test and I tested negative for all, so I know that clears the girl from January, possibly the girl from February and the last girl in my sure if it clears her. Do I need to get tested again? Was this a risk to contract hiv in the first place? Does hiv get transmitted by vaginal fluids on shaft of penis? I have unprotected sex with my girlfriend (both vaginal and oral) that's why I used a condom with everyone else. But not I feel sick, I had a harsh headache and a runny nose and I felt a little dizzy. No sore throat or cough or diraherra but it still has me worried because I just got sick after my last encounter 2-3 weeks after. If I transmit anything to her I wouldn't know what to say because she has no clue of what I done... please help...
I'm sorry for the long paragraph
Condom needs only cover the head, so you had no risk. You can't get HIV from oral. I only skimmed your story because of that..
You wasted your time testing.
However a condom doesn't protect against all std so you need to tell her if you plan to do more of this activity with others. There is an std forum.
You wasted your time testing.
However a condom doesn't protect against all std so you need to tell her if you plan to do more of this activity with others. There is an std forum.
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