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Spots on hand, sign of early hiv?
So just to recap my condom slipped down a bit with a thailand gogo girl but wasnt fully off. There was a small bruise to my penis. I started and stopped my pep on day 3 as most people said i was not at risk.
I have noone i can confide in. Now I am freaking out as i am developing a raised itchey sopt on my hand. Its only day 6 so i still have 22 days till i can test. I know hoew prevlant hiv is in thailand and i am freaking out i cant handle the pressure.
If i test negative on day 28 since i had the sex encounter, is that i can have sex with my wife safe that i wont infect her.
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I'm sorry you are experiencing so much distress, but we aren't in the business of giving out inaccurate information here. You didn't have a risk for HIV. Again, HIV enters through the HEAD of your penis only.
We aren't able to provide anxiety support, and we can't keep reassuring you about whatever medical symptoms you think you have, so there isn't any need to post about this event again. If you aren't able to control your anxiety, please seek professional therapy.
Your test will be for peace of mind only. You don't have HIV.
We aren't able to provide anxiety support, and we can't keep reassuring you about whatever medical symptoms you think you have, so there isn't any need to post about this event again. If you aren't able to control your anxiety, please seek professional therapy.
Your test will be for peace of mind only. You don't have HIV.
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Thank you for your responce and taking the time to reply. You are right I can not rely online for support. I dont normally have anxiety and but then a stupid spot flipped me. I just need to get my thoughts out their and its helps. When my test comes back negative on day 28 I will come back to say to say i am negative and overreacting.
There is nothing to post here about your placebo result because this is an hiv prevention forum. It is not an anxiety forum where people with unscientific ideas and don't believe the advice post about their cure.
You are the only person who doesn't understand that you had no risk - for example you said "most people said I had no risk" when the reality is everyone on this forum said you had no risk.
You are the only person who doesn't understand that you had no risk - for example you said "most people said I had no risk" when the reality is everyone on this forum said you had no risk.
"most people said i had no risk" The doctor at the clinic thought there was a risk. I was talking in general so correct.
Scientific? Can you provide any sceintific journal that claims condoms are 100% safe?
Placebo would only apply if there was no risk at. Giving that the go gogirls in thailand could be up to 20% hiv positive, i dont think that makes sex with condom risk free.
Scientific? Can you provide any sceintific journal that claims condoms are 100% safe?
Placebo would only apply if there was no risk at. Giving that the go gogirls in thailand could be up to 20% hiv positive, i dont think that makes sex with condom risk free.
No one can provide you with evidence that condoms are 100% safe, because we know they are not - they can break. Since yours did NOT break, you were not at risk. This is well-established science and the same advice is routinely given by experts in the field.
Sex with a condom that does not break is risk-free, whether the positivity rate of the population is 1%, 20%, or 100%.
Sex with a condom that does not break is risk-free, whether the positivity rate of the population is 1%, 20%, or 100%.
The difference between you and her is she understands that she can't get hiv from you or any other customer when she uses a condom. She didn't supply it to keep you safe, because she only cares about herself. Not sure why you think she paid money for a condom if she was already positive.
She didnt supply any condom, it was myself who brought it up first. I took her to the shop and asked her to pick xl condom as i couldnt read the boxes. Maybe her english is not good as she picked the okmoto 003 latex was too small. I paid for it, she never asked me to put it on during sex. It was me who went for the condom.
None of this is relevant. You had no risk for HIV.
MOVE ON FROM THIS EVENT. If you cannot, seek professional help.
MOVE ON FROM THIS EVENT. If you cannot, seek professional help.
Noone in the world wants what you say about being no risk to be true more than me.
If it wasnt for the bruise on my penis creating an entry point that may or may not been exposed i would have no worries all at and be confident the condom did the job. All can do now is test on day 28 for hiv.
Thank you all for your input.
If it wasnt for the bruise on my penis creating an entry point that may or may not been exposed i would have no worries all at and be confident the condom did the job. All can do now is test on day 28 for hiv.
Thank you all for your input.
If you were logical, you would have zero confidence in your made-up ideas about how hiv is transmitted. You would have taken the advice here and moved on from your made up theories on Jan 17, instead of posting your never-ending claims that you know all about hiv and we know nothing.
I'm finished.
I'm finished.
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