Thanks! You seem to be very knowledgeable about this issue. I hope i can overcome the fear and move on.
It doesnt matter at all why she stopped breast fedding, thats up to her, but if she was positive she wouldnt breast fedeed at all, so that plus that there she just bresatfeeded for 3 weeks and then you suked her niples 5 weeks after ahe stoped the breastfedeng, (breastmilk suplly is not unlimited once the suction stimulation stops breast get dry in 2-3 weeks) so when you sucked her nipples she would have been dry.
Sorry the 99,7% of people are not infected in the US
Yes offcourse but anyway testing at 6-8 weeks even for oral sex wouldnt be conclusive so anyway a 3 month test would be needed, but in my opinion it would only be warranted to test if you are 100% the other partner was positive, since the 99,3% of people is not hiv infected.
A cold is a cold, they happen all the time. You are getting all worried for no reason.
My son was breastfed for a longtime but my daughter was only breastfed for like a month. 3 weeks is enough to give a baby a much more healthy immune system. Actually whats the most important is the colostrum that comes from the breast right after childbirth, that is the most beneficial to the child immunce system.
yes i am a parent with 2 kids. If i was single i would not be as worried as i am now since i would only screw up my life.
Im not an expert at women breast feeding but would assume mothers would like to breast feed a lot longer than 3 weeks for the babys immune system. I thought 3 weeks was not much at all. I guess im looking at the negatives and finding ways to worry more.
I hope im worring for nothing. Others say having/not having symptoms make no difference which is true. But it helps the stress a lot if there were no symptoms. The cold symptoms add major stress.
I always thought sucking breast was safe.