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Thai Massage

I feel like i have read every related post but I still am really concerned about my situation.

I recently went to a massage parlour and received a totally nude (both of us) soap massage. Consisting of bath where she washed my body and penis, a soaped up bodyslide where she vigorously rubbed her vagina/breasts all over my buttocks/back and front. There may have been some penis/vagina contact definitely scrotum, however it was hard to tell because of all the soapy water. Also my exposed penis was flush against the blow up mattress (potentially used before me)

Then finished with an unprotected handjob on a clean bed using baby oil. I showered off and then stupidly put hand sanitizer on my scrotum and glans (which hurt!)

A few factors concern me:

1. I have several small open wounds on my hands and legs (which would have come in contact with her vaginal fluids)
2. Pimples on my buttocks (increased HIV/HSV2 risk?)
3. Her vagina rested on my scrotum and thighs for at least 30 secs, potentially also my glans.
4. I did not see if she had HSV2 symptoms present (blisters) but I fear she may have
5. Ive gotten all worked up about all the literature suggesting the type E HIV strain is very effective at entering uncircumsized males.
6. I had some cuts on my feet including an open sore from athletes foot
7. I have been experiencing severe nightsweats and lots of other symptoms (im hoping anxiety related)
8. It sounded like she had been working for about 8 hours before i got there.

My PEP window is up now and im really concerned i may have contracted HIV and or HSV2

Any help at relieving my anxiety would be amazing.

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HIV becomes inactive & unable to infect you once exposed to air.Transmission occurs inside the body not outside it.
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Sorry Vance I know you said no risk but I am now home with my partner and we are not sure whether we can have sex now or wait for the 3 months. its so hard to believe there is no risk whatsoever given my cuts and frottage. I hope you are right
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Did you read what I wrote?
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Thanks Vance. Do you think the risk is high enough to warrant a test?

Just out of interest is the fact (other than it not being penetrative) that soap water is involved during genital/genital contact make it even more remote or is it a non-issue?

I thought my anxiety had been fixed until I read all this literature about Type E killer strain that can infect much more effectively.
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You had no HIV risk.
Herpes questions post in the Herpes forum.
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