Think about it?Are you that sure?

[Kowalski]

Hey everyone.

I know the queastion I will write my seem not needed, but what I ask for just think...I know that the possibilities are very slim, but can you always be so possitive?

To be brief.
I was with a prostitute 7 weeks ago. What happened is:

- I kissed her a bit on the lips. She had her lips closed i had my open.
- She gave me unprotected oral. That lasted a couple of minutes.
- I bit her lighty on the but.
- I kissed her breasts.
- No vissible blood at any point.

Durring the whole “give me pleasure” situation, my little (maybe not that little):) friend could not stand up. So what happened I just gave up and whent back home...it is actually quite sad... ( On the side I do have mouth problems because I had my wise tooths taken out 2 months ago. My teeth are getting misplaced now and I tend to bit my cheeks a lot and leave marks on them. Also have problems with lips because of the cold)

After that I had the following tests:

- chlamydia and gonoryha after 6 days.
- Hiv rapid test after 4 weeks. (HIV 1/2)
- Hiv rapid test after 6 weeks.  (HIV 1/2)

Besides that encounter my last encounter was in a steady relationship 4 months ago. Durring that time no sex (that is why the prostitute came up in my mind). So that rules everything out to the situation with the prostitute.

So.....being that I should be calm and sure that I did not get hiv from that encounter. I know the statistics and the possibilites. They are remote and neglible and at this point I would have a bigger chance of getting hit by a car when I walk out to a club tonight. I would let It go and I even did not think about it, till the moment I had the following symptoms after 6 weeks:

- sore throut
- stuffy nose
- small couth
- phlegm
- body aches
- a ulcer at the back of my mouth by the throut (It is a little raised and red)
- in all fatigue
- no fever

I know symtoms do not meen anything. Probably it is a sinus infection, especially when it is the season in Geneva where I am at. By the way they say in Switzerland recieving oral sex is no risk. The same was told to me by the nurses at the emergency and test center.

So...why do I still ask? Why am I still on this subject when I should have let it go. Whel it is those god damm symptoms and that god damm neglible risk mentioned on many pages. The “what if” I am that god damm “lucky one” that won the “lottery”. By the way I really am a stable peson, one that usually never worries.

So my question is: Do I still need testing after 3 months from the encounter? Maybe I should test for syphilis as well?

I know what you will answer....but are you 100 proc. sure I am safe from hiv from that encounter? Would you be confident if I would start sleeping with my former girlfriend again without protection? Are you sure that I will not put anyone at risk?

Please take a minute to think about it. For that I will be very grateful.

[Teak]

Low risk for "giving" not receiving.

[Kowalski]

By the way has Dr. H ever said recieving oral sex is no risk? From what I read he always sais "very low risk". Same goes to Dr. Bob.

[ExtremeStress]

i'll ask Kid Rock tonight, what he thinks about unprotected oral!!!!!

[Kowalski]

You are strong in your beliefs Teak:)
The best argument for winning such a case is that there is NO 100proc. PROOF that it can not happen.

[ExtremeStress]

i don't know why i am even entertaining this conversation. no one said it was impossible, we said it just isn't going to happen. it is possible that a meteor slams into earth tomorrow and destroys mankind. you know what though? its not going to happen.

[Teak]

Take it to court, your arguments here shows that you wouldn't have a chance.