Unproteced Vaginal Encounter With Escort

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Hi, 8 days ago I made the biggest mistake of my life.  I had an encounter with a ESCORT visiting NJ from Tampa, FL.  I received unprotected oral and then she asked if I wanted to have vaginal intercourse.  I said yes and like normal escorts I was waiting for the condom but she inserted my penis into her as she got on top and grinded my for about a minute until I realized I was nuts.  I immediately went into panic. She said she is an exotic dancer in Tampa and this was her first go at being an escort.  She claims she is 100% clean and has an AIM Certificate to prove it.  She says she can't work without it.  (Of course this certificate was back in Florida.)  I am scared because she didn't seem to be worried about catching anything from my by doing that.  

That's my story, here are my questions?

1. I know this is a high risk situation, what are my chances of catching HIV?

2. Is this AIM certificate something that she could be telling the truth about?

3. How long do I have to wait until I can get tested?  What are the stats for each testing period of accuracy.

4. Is there a test I can take at 2-3 weeks to help with my anxiety?

5. Can my anxiety lead to symptoms of ARS?  Within the last couple of days I have had a lot of pain in the left side of my neck where the lymph nodes would be and I have swollen tonsils. No fever to speak of yet.

I appreciate your help and advice, I am truly a mess and this is not something you can really talk about among friends and family.  

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i believe you are in the clear...uprotected vaginal sex from 1 time exposure is 1 in 2000 (if she is HIV positive) your situation is low risk...i am ex-worried well and I suggest you get a test at 6 weeks...if it comes back negative in which it should, you can expect that if you are still nervous a test at 3 months will also show up negative. many people claim they have ARS symptoms because they are overly anxious about the test. some people can have the flu and claim that its linked to ARS when in a high percentage of cases its not. The fact that she is AIM certified makes it even less likely that the has HIV. Most people would not lie about not having HIV because it is against the law. I suggest that you get a test not at 3-5 weeks but at WEEK #6. Then you can rest assured as most new test are 98% accurate at 6 weeks. in the meantime relax, you didnt have a high risk exposure such as anal sex witha drug user who has sex with other men.

good luk