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Help! Am I at risk?

A few weeks ago I fooled around with someone I just met the week prior and I am wondering what my risks are. I fingered her vagina a lot until she orgasmed several times with a lot of "squirting." Then, per her request, I fingered her anus a lot as well. During this time, after she had cum by my fingers several times, I masturbated a little, but very briefly and did not ejaculate. Unfortunately I did not wash my hands first. I also licked her vagina for about five seconds. She also very briefly fingered my anus.
The next week, I fingered her anus and vagina again and realized just after I started fingering her vagina that she was on her period. I quickly washed my hands and that was the end of it. She has only given me oral for brief seconds at a time.

She then informed me that, though she does not think there is a problem, she is getting an HIV test because she had sex with a man in Honduras six months ago and is unsure about it.

I do not believe I had cuts on my fingers at the time, but I cannot be certain. She got her test, but the results won't come for two weeks. I'm just wondering whether or not, given my activity as I described it, if there is much of a chance of infection for HIV or other STDs or if I should simply stop worrying. She tells me not to worry, but I cannot be certain.
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I  have been losing some serious sleep over this. Thanks to you guys, I feel the sleep coming back!
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You never had an exposure to hiv from the situation you describe,because hiv is unable to reproduce outside its living host.It becomes inactive and unable to infect,however test for more common STD,s but not hiv.Fingering and oral sex are zero risk of hiv transmission.
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Thanks! Even if a) there was a cut (I'm just asking, but I don't think there was one) and b) she was infected and on her period?
I really appreciate this, man.
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Fingering of any kind doesn't transmit HIV!
Your fine buddy! I wouldn't lose sleep over this!
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