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IS IT A RISK FOR RECEPTIVE ORAL SEX

HI TEAK AND LIZZIE AND OTHERS ,I HAVE HEARD SOME ONE SAID THAT IN ORAL SEX ,INSERTIVE (MEANS PERFOM )IS A LOWER RISK THAN RECEPTIVE (MEANS BEING SUCKED OR LICKED ) IN HIV  IS THAT TRUE ? WAS WORRIED BECAUSE I WAS BEING LICKED PENIS(PENIS TO MOUTH) BE AN HIV UNKOWN STATUS WOMAN ,AM I AT RISK WITH HIV ??????THANKS
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186166 tn?1385259382
ok...since you seem to have all the answers...there is really no need in an assessment.

kindly move on...this forum has nothing left to offer.
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catastrophic even after ejaculation whilst i was drunk and cant remember much? dry cough alongside fever also occurred exactly 3weeks after csw encounter. mmmm concidence .... i dotn think so.
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186166 tn?1385259382
condom failure is catastrophic...exposing the head of your penis.

stop focusing on your dry cough...it is not hiv related.
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Right tell me this then i SWEAR this will be last time ever i post on this and i MEAN that.
see if a condom rips does it rip all the way down like a banana for instance or can it get minor rips as well and is it possible to carry on after ejaculation without causing a condom to rip?
and back to my cough q can this be classed as a COMMON ars symptom such as in the same category as swollen lymph nodes, etc.
if you answer these qs it will SEVERELY  conquer my anixety.
again i will never post again after this and wish yous all the best.
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Because? After you were told you didn't have a risk that is the end of it. It's not up for discussion.
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i have posted before i had protected sex but unprotected oral. now i know ul probably go look at your previous posts but to be honest half my qs werent answered. i appreciate you saying symtpoms arent hiv specifc but they are in 70% ( roughly) whom do contract HIV. my main symptom was a dry cough with fever nothing else. i know you will say u protected sex = no risk. i appreciate tht it helps me but what doesnt help me is that some sites say a dry cough with fever is  a MAIN  symtpon of hiv whilst others dont. so going with ars symptoms has this ever occurred with people that have contracted HIV from your extensive knowledge?
Also yous talk about correct and consistent use. i understand what that is. what i don't fully understand is that once u have ejaculated what happens then. semen can leak out of  the base of the condom course and get a girl pregnant. so does that mean alternatively the womans semen can leak through as well through the penis?
Also one last q is it imperative to pull out after ejaculation and with regards to condom failure do condoms regularly slip off or burst if used after ejaculation for say 5mins or so max. In my case i kept goign after ejaculating with a sex worker it may have ripped i dont know but it certainly didnt fully burst i know that.
i feel in all honestly if EACH q i have asked is answered fully and comprehensively then it would solve the majority of qs on this forum, as i have looked at answers being given such as move on, no risk ,etc but they create more problems than ever and i appreciate yous get tired of answering repetitive qs but the only reason they are given is becuase no full explanations are given such as within my case.
many thanks. keep up the good work. yous are good helping people i always remember that.
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We've dealt with you before...

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186166 tn?1385259382
i just love it when ppl come here with their "google" education and try to dispute the PROVEN facts.
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Peer reviews are NOT scientific fact and the fact is HIV is not transmitted by oral sex. HIV is not transmitted by correctly and consistently use condoms.  
Symptoms are not discussed because HIV has no specific symptoms.  Now if your have a risk you want to discuss ask your question.
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I hate to this agree with this theroy but there has been. type in nhs and hiv on google and go to real life stories. the last story is about a guy who contracted it through having bleeding gums. That is on the nhs website so with all due respect i would take their advice well before people whom simply post on a website. i hate to sound nasty but i sincerely believe i may have contracted HIV through this. Also why do condoms only mean 'safer' sex and not safe sex ? for me that shows a level of incompetence within condoms and there was a study that 2 woman out off 100 people whom used condoms correctly and consistently actually contracted HIV through condom use. Another thing which is confusing is a dry cough and chest infection with fever  a sign of hiv? i have seen this posted so many times on this website but it was never been answered once.
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186166 tn?1385259382
there are no documented cases of hiv being transmitted/contracted through oral sex...giving or receiving.  
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