Aa
MedHelp.org will cease operations on May 31, 2024. It has been our pleasure to join you on your health journey for the past 30 years. For more info, click here.
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

I am dying daily,Help me plsssss.

Respected sir,

i received a oral sex from a road side sex worker before 60 days from this post, on 44th day i got elisa test at ranbaxy negetive,bt i afraid regarding seroconversion period,i cant sleep as well n take food,i feel pinning inside in my whole body is this a HIV m dying...how much should i confident after my 44 day test,do i need another test..I am not able to listen my next result.....PLS HELP ME SIR,,M DYING
33 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
And finally it should be END OF THIS THREAD of my dark LIFE..and leaving all behind what i did..WOOOOOOOOO  HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.(Leaving behing 86 days of Sleepless Nights)....:)
Helpful - 0
186166 tn?1385259382
:)
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I came back non-reactive on MEIA  AG/AB combo test with p24 after 12 weeks (update).It will help all my frnds,which are feeling anixety from ORAL SEX here on this web site.No need to worry from ORAL SEX. But for my all frnds on this community..PLS....PLS...PLS..PLAY SAFE SEX ;)..Anixety is more dengerous than HIV.

Again LOAAADS of THXXX to Mr.Teak,Lizzie Lou,Nurse Girl

GOD Bless you For your GREAT work here on this web site  

Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Sir, Today its my 3 month mark,n i went for test,in evening i will get the result Let C what happens,Don know may b +, coz from last two weeks swollen glands in armpit and groin area...m so :(
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Respected Sir,
After 2.11months i got sleep n had a good dinner..i was wid my wife n my kids,,,i was in hell from 2.11 months..in evening my bro took my blood sample n rushed to RANBAXY labrotary..after half an hour i came to know m ok...my two ELISA test are negetive...(one at 44 day and second 71 day) now i can think about my LIFE..which was in a dark lonely room,,I think God gave me this chance..i know i was at low risk..but who knows a lil amount of blood or a 2 minute enjoy can change a life forever,,some people were saying i got my mind out of balance..bt i was not,,i was in depression,,no body was with me to share my feelings..only med help was the only way through i was living with lil bit hopes..n now i wanna to say one thing again ..Your words were really helpfull for me..LOADSSS OF THXXX to be with me on DePreSSed :(( part of my Life Ever..
I came back negetive on 71 days..n m not goin to check it again..it is conclusive for me.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Sir, Today i m going for TEST, I m so afraid, i couldnt hold my nerves,i m in big tention,i don know what will happen,bt whatever it is i want to know my status, i m positive or not..I want to check my LUCK ..that what GOD wrote for me..TODAY is SENTENCE TO DEATH may BE.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
PCR tests are not FDA approved diagnostic tests. PEROID. Take your BS to another fourm.
Helpful - 0
480448 tn?1426948538
I THINK the % of false POS is about 10%.  DON'T hold me to that....but even a LOW %...it just isn't worth it, IMO...when an antibody test can yield accurate results, and is approved for diagnosis.

Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
A PCR DNA test can be used as a diagnostic test, although the CDC does not recommend it (mainly because of early research that indicate high false positives). Plus its extremely expensive. A PCR RNA test, on the other hand is what you are referring to as a viral load test and will give you the actual number of copies of the virus. This is also sometimes used as a diagnostic test during early presentation of primary infection (>7 day window).

to quote you on a post several years back:

"http://www.medhelp.org/forums/HIVSupport/messages/603.html";
"A PCR-DNA test is not an approved diagnostic test in the US. A PCR-RNA test is a supplemental test in helping diagnose early HIV infection and it is not a stand alone test and must be followed up with an antibody test"

PHI is often diagnosed by a PCR. Legally (and definitively) the person doesn't have HIV until there is a positive antibody test (3 & 6 months). I get that. I was offering my own, nonprofessional, opinion. A negative PCR DNA test might bring some relief.

Not trying to be confrontational. Just trying to help. Sorry if I offended (or scared) anyone.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Well we can see your ton of studying hasn't taught you a thing. A PCR test is not a diagnostic test. When used for VL it's a montoring test, not a diagnostic test.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Hey Jogi,

The chances of you contracting HIV through oral sex is extremely low. I have only come across one (definitively) documented case . . . and I've researched the subject a ton. Most people notice swollen lymph nodes in the throat coincided with the other symptoms of ARS: (fever, diarreah, nausea, headache, chills, etc). It would be extremely unlikely that you would develop these symptoms after 6 weeks.

Listen, what you need to do is realize you have a mental problem (severe anxiety, depression) and at the root cause of the mental problem is something else. Maybe you have a lot of guilt for what you did? Telling you to stop worrying because you dont have a risk won't fix anything. Resolving your underlying issue will. You are okay, I am sure of it.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Say, how high are false positive rates with the PCR test? Just wondering if you have any statistics on that... I mean something NOT from the 90's.

If you show up positive they do a viral load test (RNA). The two, in combination, will provide you with a pretty damn accurate result, especially of a known subtype (like I suggested: subtype B). This is the routine if you were to go into an HIV specialist thinking you were undergoing ARS. I highly disagree... it is not irresponsible.

In this case though, it may be just a complete waste of money. The guy's risk was negligible. A 44 day, post exposure, ELISA should be very comforting... I recommend seeking psychological treatment. There are psychologists that deal specifically with HIV anxiety (which is very common). One may get a reference from an HIV specialist, most likely just from calling the office up and asking for recommendations.

Helpful - 0
417144 tn?1225959248
Sorry to be direct.......think it your mind..........not HIV.  See a doctor regarding your swollen glands.  I am sure it's not related to HIV...

HIV is diagnosed through a blood test, not through signs and symptoms.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
so what u tell about my swollen glands under my both arm pit..after 60 days of my oral exposure..6 weeks report was negetive..tell me pls...
Helpful - 0
417144 tn?1225959248
You will need to acknowledge the facts about HIV and reconcile with these facts.

You need to spent more time in your other daily affairs rather than sit on these issues, which will make you malfunction.

Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
suppose she had some blood in her mouth and thru my penis line her blood entered my body..???

Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
suppose she had some blood in her mouth and thru my penis line her blood entered my body..???
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
suppose she had some blood in her mouth and thru my penis line her blood entered my body..???
Helpful - 0
480448 tn?1426948538
Recommending the someone as anxious as this poster take a PCR test is irresponsible.  Not only is it not an approved diagnostic test, but also...it has a significant rate of false POS results.  I cannot imagine anything worse than someone in complete turmoil receiving a false pos test result!

Also...yes, oral sex carries a very LOW risk..but not if you are the receiver!!!!  Think about it!  The only thing the OP came in contact with was the saliva....and saliva is not infectious.
Helpful - 0
186166 tn?1385259382
you were never at risk from the situation you described above.

now to answer your last question.  IF...and please read that IF again...IF oral sex was a risk to you...explain to me exactly HOW you think that YOU ejaculating in HER mouth increases your chance.

NO RISK>>>MOVE ON.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Sir, i ejuclate in her mouth...it increase...???
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
You can fester with your unwarranted worries all you like. The problem with you is your guilt of cheating not HIV. You didn't have a risk of contracting HIV. It's time for you to move on.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Sir, I don know whts wrong goin with me bt m.. goin to retest my self again with in few days, if i send u another msg..Sir again m in this world if no msg from me...i ll b no more then...:( crying rite now..i respect u ..bt m fool i did mistake ..n i hv to pay for dat..i hv a wife too..to whom i cant see in her eyes..let c wht future holds for me..HV a good day Sir bt,for some time ven u say i don hv risk...i found recharge within my self...bt after seeing (SINGLEMISTAKE) msg again i went in my old worries..bt in end i wanna say u r like GOD for us like me (deepressed peoples...m worthless...)  
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
PCR test are not approved diagnostic tests in the US. Oral sex is not a risk of contracting HIV. Take your BS to another forum. You've been reported to MedHelp.
Helpful - 0
2
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the HIV Prevention Community

Top HIV Answerers
366749 tn?1544695265
Karachi, Pakistan
370181 tn?1716862802
Arlington, WA
Learn About Top Answerers
Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
Condoms are the most effective way to prevent HIV and STDs.
PrEP is used by people with high risk to prevent HIV infection.
Can I get HIV from surfaces, like toilet seats?
Can you get HIV from casual contact, like hugging?
Frequency of HIV testing depends on your risk.
Post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) may help prevent HIV infection.