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hi i only ever kissed one guy in my entire life i kissed him twice wel more like he kissed me cuz during both my mouth was pretty much closed but his wasnt anyway i never had sex or anything like that i never did drugs however this paranioa is killing me i am so depressed i have sore throats every morning i have thrush on my tongue every morning i have one lymph node on my neck that hasnt gone away im just so scared that i might have had a sore in my mouth that day and he gave me hiv idk if he has hiv but what if he did im scared to death hellp me
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I can assure you 100% that there was no risk from HIV in this encounter.  Do not spend another minute worrying about this.  They call these sexually transmitted diseases for a reason - you need to have sex to transmit them.  Kissing is no risk for HIV.  End of.  Stop worrying and be happy.  Just ensure condom use for oral/vaginal/anal sex and u never need worry about HIV
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its just that im an anxious person and i do want to go get tested just in case but the waiting for results process will probably kill me from the stress. one last question can anxiety cause physical sypmtoms cuz i have a lymph node on my neck that doesnt go away with antibiotics i keep poking it cuz i know its tehre i have thrush my tonsils dont loook rigth theyr swollen all the time but i also have chronic sinusitis so maybe thats why inside of my mouth is so messed up? thank you for teak and alan74 for ur answers btw
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Condom for Oral???? Doesn't make a difference. Oral sex is ZERO risk according to MedHelp experts.
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That would pose a theoretical risk but very very unlikely even with blood in the mouth.  The mouth is a very hostile place for HIV and saliva massively hampers its chance on infection.  The mouth is full on enzymes and is in general your bodys first line of defence. I would urge you not to worry about this, your risk is so minimal its just not worth a worry.  The term theoretical is used because it may be possible, but its also theoretically possible a meteor might land on you while you read this. You hiv risk from this exposure is about the same as the meteor.
If you remain concerned get a test at 28 days duu/combi you can definitely expect negative results if this was your only exposure.
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im so thankful for ur answers but what if i had an open sore in my mouth and he had blood in his mouth by chance? what about then?
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