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hi .
i slept with a random person 3 days ago . and im feeling like famn bad . i cant even sleep . i think like i might have got the virus . but im also not sure that she have got it . but she is a girl who sleeps with many ppl . coz of that am all
afraid . i cant sleep coz iv been thinking abt this all the time . i used the condom . im swettting and all stressd up by the time i started thinking abt it . please help me . i cant sleep becaouse i think of this risks . im not sure she is HIV positive . i used the condom .
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186166 tn?1385259382
There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex.  The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way.  Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk".  There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex.  Please educate yourself about the real risks.  If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. "   DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..."   DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?  
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA

you have been assessed as not having a risk of contracting hiv.  kindly move on.
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actualy im afraid coz im sweating ... but this started by the time i started thinking abt it ... im a guy who thinks abt stuff alot ...
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186166 tn?1385259382
FOR SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY HAD A RISK...YOU DID NOT...a test done at 6-8 weeks post exposure will give them a good indication of their status...but 3 months is needed for a conclusive result.

save your money...you dont need testing for hiv.
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u sure guys    =)
Damn u  guys helped me alot . but tommorow im goin to doctor and im goin to do a test . othervise i want be fully happy abt it . doing a test this early will show if i have it or not ???????
Kumar and lizzie i realy appreciate ur comments ..
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186166 tn?1385259382
you had NO risk from anything that you are describing.

NO RISK ! ! !
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1163575 tn?1339478617
oral sex does not carry a risk..
you do not have a risk with the encounter that you described..
don think of hiv and move on with your life
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but at 1st few seconds she did oral without the condom i think ... i cant even think of it coz am all stressed :S .. man this is the hardest time of my life thinking of this thing  =(
kumar does the result show if i have it or not if i test after 2 days also ?
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1163575 tn?1339478617
as long you used a condom properly then you had no risk..
no need to worry
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