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another concern, is this rational?
hi, thanks for your helps,
as you may have read in my other thread, i spent some minutes in a "private dance" session at a table dance club in germany,
i sat on a chair with clothes on and the girl danced completely naked and she rubbed her body and breasts to my face and body;
everyone told me no risk,
but today i started to get panicked again,,,i say to myself is it possible that i had a short time penetrative sex with her without remembering it? of course i was not drunk at that time, i only had some beer at the time, but the room was dark and the girl rubbed her legs and vaginal area to my clothed penis till made it hard,,,although i don't really think i even got unclothed, but what if i can not remember it? of couse i CAN remember some details, for example taking off my coat, and that she did not let me touch her body unless she herself wanted it and even that she told me she is a dancing girl, not a hooker after i wanted to touch her private parts, and that they told me the private dance time is 6 minutes and after the light turned on the sesion was finished. in fact i did not intend to have sex in that club as far as i can remember,,,what do you think according to your experiences and frequently asked anxiety related questions in this forum?
i think i got hiv phobia because i think about it alot,
i also should add that 3 weeks after that night, i got a sore throat and herpes simplex of lips, and a little stuffy nose, but no fever,what is your opinion? thanks,
as you may have read in my other thread, i spent some minutes in a "private dance" session at a table dance club in germany,
i sat on a chair with clothes on and the girl danced completely naked and she rubbed her body and breasts to my face and body;
everyone told me no risk,
but today i started to get panicked again,,,i say to myself is it possible that i had a short time penetrative sex with her without remembering it? of course i was not drunk at that time, i only had some beer at the time, but the room was dark and the girl rubbed her legs and vaginal area to my clothed penis till made it hard,,,although i don't really think i even got unclothed, but what if i can not remember it? of couse i CAN remember some details, for example taking off my coat, and that she did not let me touch her body unless she herself wanted it and even that she told me she is a dancing girl, not a hooker after i wanted to touch her private parts, and that they told me the private dance time is 6 minutes and after the light turned on the sesion was finished. in fact i did not intend to have sex in that club as far as i can remember,,,what do you think according to your experiences and frequently asked anxiety related questions in this forum?
i think i got hiv phobia because i think about it alot,
i also should add that 3 weeks after that night, i got a sore throat and herpes simplex of lips, and a little stuffy nose, but no fever,what is your opinion? thanks,
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I am pretty sure you would remember engaging in intercourse if you were not drunk.
IMPORTANT: i forgot to tell you that i did the same acts TWO times with two different girls (each for 6 minutes) and this scares me more,,,again no risk and irrational thoughts?
is this rational that somebody think he would forget some details which can be risk factors?
i am sure i wasn't drunk because i CAN remember some details from those two nights, and i didn't want to have unprotected sex, but i am scared i did it in the heat of the moment without knowing or remembering it,,
by the way i tested negative 6 weeks past those nights, should i retest?
i am sure i wasn't drunk because i CAN remember some details from those two nights, and i didn't want to have unprotected sex, but i am scared i did it in the heat of the moment without knowing or remembering it,,
by the way i tested negative 6 weeks past those nights, should i retest?
any suggestions? should i test , or control my thoughts?
in the private dance sessions, i was only seated on a chair and i did not ejaculate at all, as far as i can remember,,,the session was organized for just 6 minutes, i did not intend to have sex in the club, i was just curious to experience a private dance,,,in fact i am not so aware about the rules in table dance clubs of germany, but my stupid thoughts are overwhelming me, thanks again,
in the private dance sessions, i was only seated on a chair and i did not ejaculate at all, as far as i can remember,,,the session was organized for just 6 minutes, i did not intend to have sex in the club, i was just curious to experience a private dance,,,in fact i am not so aware about the rules in table dance clubs of germany, but my stupid thoughts are overwhelming me, thanks again,
is there anyone from germany?
i want to know is it possible in any case that the dancers perform oral/vaginal/anal sex with customer while he is so excited or drunk?
of course i am somehow sure i did not want to have sex in that place and that club was not organized for having sex, but i get more confused when i think more about it,,,what do you suggest me? thanks,
i want to know is it possible in any case that the dancers perform oral/vaginal/anal sex with customer while he is so excited or drunk?
of course i am somehow sure i did not want to have sex in that place and that club was not organized for having sex, but i get more confused when i think more about it,,,what do you suggest me? thanks,
is there anyone from germany here?
is it possible that the girls in table dance session perform short time oral/anal/vaginal sex to the customer when he is so excited or drunk?
i am somehow sure i didn't want to have sex in that place, and that place was not organized for having sex,,,,but i am getting confused more and more! what would you do if you were in this situation?
is it possible that the girls in table dance session perform short time oral/anal/vaginal sex to the customer when he is so excited or drunk?
i am somehow sure i didn't want to have sex in that place, and that place was not organized for having sex,,,,but i am getting confused more and more! what would you do if you were in this situation?
thanks teak, i think you are right, i really need to forget about it or get metal hep, thanks
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