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Big mistake I made a couple nights ago
Hi,
Married man, mid 30s. I was very drunk while wife was out of town and decided to drunkenly dial a CSW one night.
I got unprotected rough oral and about a few minutes of protected sex before I came to my senses and prematurely ended the session. Later that day I noticed a scratch on the head of my penis, probably from the oral I mentioned earlier, like from one of her teeth. The scratch was not too deep, it was not actively bleeding but was definitely red. The condom should have covered the area but...
My questions are how likely is this an hiv infection? I asked her if she had anything and she said no (and got a little insulted when I did). I did have the Condom on during the sex, but was pretty drunk and don't remember when I took it off. I'm scared that the tooth scratch on my penis could be a vector for hiv/hsv or hep B/C. Or some of the vaginal fluid on my hand could have rubbed into the scratch.
I feel really terrible about this. I am obviously going to get checked in a few weeks but in the mean time dealing with the self hate and anxiety is almost unbearable.
Married man, mid 30s. I was very drunk while wife was out of town and decided to drunkenly dial a CSW one night.
I got unprotected rough oral and about a few minutes of protected sex before I came to my senses and prematurely ended the session. Later that day I noticed a scratch on the head of my penis, probably from the oral I mentioned earlier, like from one of her teeth. The scratch was not too deep, it was not actively bleeding but was definitely red. The condom should have covered the area but...
My questions are how likely is this an hiv infection? I asked her if she had anything and she said no (and got a little insulted when I did). I did have the Condom on during the sex, but was pretty drunk and don't remember when I took it off. I'm scared that the tooth scratch on my penis could be a vector for hiv/hsv or hep B/C. Or some of the vaginal fluid on my hand could have rubbed into the scratch.
I feel really terrible about this. I am obviously going to get checked in a few weeks but in the mean time dealing with the self hate and anxiety is almost unbearable.
Thanks RBD. I hope things turns out well for both of us
2 Comments
RBG, no that is not the advice for D12, .
Only sex risks are unprotected protected vaginal or anal, and oral is not a risk.
Only the head needs to be protected and the scratch is irrelevant. HIV is not easy to catch and can only be transmitted in certain ways, not like a cold that you can get by touching a doorknob someone sneezed on 2 weeks ago then not washing your hands before eating.
Zero risk for D12.
Only sex risks are unprotected protected vaginal or anal, and oral is not a risk.
Only the head needs to be protected and the scratch is irrelevant. HIV is not easy to catch and can only be transmitted in certain ways, not like a cold that you can get by touching a doorknob someone sneezed on 2 weeks ago then not washing your hands before eating.
Zero risk for D12.
Only sex risks for HIV are unprotected vaginal or anal, and oral is not a risk.
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