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Hi all,

I posted a while back.  A while back I received oral from a guy I didn't know.  7/8 weeks later develpoed 1 swollen node, week later has back pain, muscle pain, fatigue then one extremely red eye.  Rosecea flare-up occured at the same time.  I am certain I have reactive artthritis which can happen with HIV too.  

The comments at the time was that I was not at risk so I did not test.  Well, still having back issues, dry eyes, rosecea etc.

I have used condoms with my wife b/c of birth control issues.  She has not perfomed oral on me since although I have on her.

Well, last time we were togther was 2 weeks ago.  She complained last week of a bout of diareah and has a rash on her chest on stomach.  Did I now give it to her.

I know all low risk but is all to coincidental.

I am going to get HIV test today, just freaked and need some help....
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186166 tn?1385259382
wrong
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nursegirl,

have not have a chance to get test yet,  My concern is not for me, but 2 weeks after my wife and I had protected vaginal, unprotected cunnslingus she had a couple hour bout of diarea, some muscle pains in chest and has had a rash on boobs and stomach for a week.  Sounds like ARS to me......
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480448 tn?1426948538
Testing is not needed, but if you feel it will help you finally put this behind you, then yes, a rpaid test is sufficient...and 3 months is conclusive.
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Sure hope you guys are right.  I made one really dumb mistake and really hope have not wrecked my life.  CDC is not as confident as you all but I guess will find out.  Is rapid test ok.  Is over 3 months.
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Zero, HIV is not transmitted in that manner.
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Vance,

What is the risk of transmission to a woman from man giving her oral?
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What were you told previous? That you had no risk, that is not going to change.
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couldnt remeber old one
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186166 tn?1385259382
why are you using a different screen name?
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