I've had sex with a guy twice. (Two separate occasions) on both occasions intercourse was initiated with the use of a condom. However, after he ejaculated, he took the condom off, washed his genitalia off with soap and water and then came back and resumed intercourse without a condom. He never ejaculated in nor on me. How high is my risk if he was positive? He said he's not, but I'm just a bit of the paranoid type. I'm a female btw (so penile-vaginal sex). So long story short, I was only exposed to pre-cum, if anything. I highly doubt I was even exposed to that.