cant remember

[hellohelp648]

was with a girl she got naked but from what I remember I kept my boxers on,I remember waking in the night and pressing myself against her from behind,dont think anything slipped out or in! But not sure....in fact not sure if I was wearing the boxers at the time.....would I have remembered if we had had sex ?

[lostone08]

well i didnt mean much by it Teak is completly rite you can not have sex with underwear on normal underwear that is but boxers have a very large opening that is made for easy access of the penis are you at risk? you have to be the judge of that but just do yourself a favor and go get tested i want to wish you the best of luck i just meant you werre going to need it because...... nevermind just get tested male sure you post the results up for us k buddy good luck :)

[hellohelp648]

But what did lostone08 mean by good luck Im going to need it?

[lostone08]

i agree with you lizzie hellohelp is beenthroughit300 now hes making fake screen names posting false info in my post how pathetic

[LIZZIE LOU]

please stop these stupid questions.  how the hell would "we" know if you had sex or not.

any more of this and i will report you for abusing the forum.

move on..................

[hellohelp648]

lostone08 implies I put myself at risk.....saying good luck your going to need it.....can we just get back to the original point rather than being spiteful.

Is it likely that you can have sex and not remember it...I wasnt really drunk lke lostone08 was when he had his encounter..I had had a couple of drinks..so would I have woken up if someone had taken off my boxers and started having sex with me?

[hellohelp648]

judging by your posts and risky behaviour  your going to need a deal more luck than me.....quit giving advice when it seems you need it more than most.....I wish you all that you wish me

[lostone08]

by the way there are no docs or experts in here mostly all worry wells like us sharing and looking answers if you want to talk to a doc go to the expert forum and quit being ignorant and just go and get tested im done in here good luck your going to need it

[lostone08]

hey i wasnt giving you advice i was just relating to you and sharing the info i have learned but obviously i was just wasting my time

[LIZZIE LOU]

you "thoughts" are irrational.

if you are afraid that you dont remember having sex or not...just get tested and move on.  

there is no reason for this conversation to continue!

[hellohelp648]

well as a worrier yourself I dont think you should be giving advice to other worriers

[lostone08]

and if your going to question me then dont ask me questions

[lostone08]

sorry i did not mean to give any doubts about your situation everyones is different i am nobody but a worry well like yourself

[hellohelp648]

Well I was happy to let it go and move on as Teak had said as, like him I believed if someone has sex you would have to remember it and I did not remember anything,however you have cast added doubt to my mind and I would like to know what is your background to be givving advice on this site ? Also can I have Teaks view on this

[lostone08]

it depends i blacked out after the first time i had sex with her and she didnt have to tyake my boxers off my boxers have an opening where she could of easily accessed it to be honest with you i dont remember and as hard as i try to go back to that night i still cant remember i dont know if my mind is playing tricks on me but its like 50/50 i could have and could not have yes i slept next to her and i had only my boxers on i woke up the next morning and didnt remember anything after i had protected sex with her the first time but i tend to have sex half a sleep with my fiance so it very well could of happened with her if i was sleeping next to her intoxicated and thought she was my fiance so yea i just dont remember but it doesnt even matter just get tested thats the only way you will know your status is what im getting at it doesnt matter if you slept with her or not at this point its already to late if you did you did if you didnt you didnt because your mind will never let you put that to rest until you get tested

[hellohelp648]

ok but you remembered having sex with her vaguely......she didnt take your boxers off and had sew ith you ,it was the other way round....my point is would you have remembered anything I mean if someon was on top of you having sex you would remember even briefly right ?

[lostone08]

hey i was also in your situation i was very very very intoxicated had sex with a csw fell a sleep with her with my boxers on kind of remember having sex with her again without protection but am still unsure if it happened im going to tell you the truth at this point its not about your risk or if it happened or not nothing will satisfy your anxiety and worries except a hiv test i just got tired of thinking about it and went and got tested it wasnt so bad it came out neg at 8weeks which encouraged me to go back at 10 weeks then it really reassured me and i went back at 12 if you cant wait that long get tested asap and you will feel a lot better and have a good indicator of your results good luck

[Teak]

Click on my profile.

[hellohelp648]

are they not a proper advisor here then.......

do you have a backgroud in HIV advise ?  thanks

[Teak]

Yes don't pay any attention to that person.

[hellohelp648]

ok so I should disregard member siteheld saying"one can have sex and not remember or even if underwear was on"

[Teak]

Move on. You didn't have a risk.

[hellohelp648]

so someone would remember having sex ,its couldnt just slip in form behind

[Teak]

If you wasn't that drunk why don't you remember? This isn't making any sense..

[hellohelp648]

so someone can have sex and not remember ,I wasnt that drunk?