Hi Doc,
I'm concerned about a risk and I also have a general question. I engaged in mutual masturbation with another man, I am a male 19 years old and unsure of his status. I'm concerned for three reasons. First, I had his semen and pre-semen on my hand and on my index finger there is a fairly large cut that was only about 18 hours old. It wasn't fully healed, so I'm worried that I could get HIV transmitted me to that way. Additionally, he also inserted his fingers in my anus at one point and I'm worried he could've had some fluids on his hand during this - I'm not quite sure. Finally, at one point my ear itched as I was masturbating him and I scratched the inside of the ear on the accident with the large probablity that I had fluid on my hand.
I there have the following questions
1. What is my risk of HIV in this scenario?
2. Any other STDs to be worrried about
3. Has anyone gotten HIV over this sort of behavior?
4. Is testing recommended? I recently tested negative for all STDs about 6 weeks ago.
5. This is the general question: about how many gay men by % are HIV+?