Aa
completely freaking out. do I have any risk at all?
It hasn't been recent but on 2 different occasions when I was with 2 different guys
The one guy was rubbing his penis on my vagina, I do believe I was wet, not sure about pre cum, but he never penetrated. Am I at risk for that at all?
The second guy did the same and he always put his penis head right near my whole and was trying to penetrate but I told him no cuz he did not have a condom, but he penis was right at the whole. Any risk for that?
Also I had an STD, which was treated and no longer there and a year ago my doctor found cervical displaysia, which I'm still dealing with. Any risk because of me having that?
I'm asking this because my primary doctor gave me lab work to get done and put an hiv test on it and I've been freaking out ever since. I liteally just woke up because I had a dream that it came out positive and now I'm terrified to go do it.
The one guy was rubbing his penis on my vagina, I do believe I was wet, not sure about pre cum, but he never penetrated. Am I at risk for that at all?
The second guy did the same and he always put his penis head right near my whole and was trying to penetrate but I told him no cuz he did not have a condom, but he penis was right at the whole. Any risk for that?
Also I had an STD, which was treated and no longer there and a year ago my doctor found cervical displaysia, which I'm still dealing with. Any risk because of me having that?
I'm asking this because my primary doctor gave me lab work to get done and put an hiv test on it and I've been freaking out ever since. I liteally just woke up because I had a dream that it came out positive and now I'm terrified to go do it.
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I just called a local HIV/AIDS and I asked her the same question and she said if there were fluids then I could have been at risk. I am really freaking out now.
Well my doctor gave me routine lab work to get done so I'm not going only for a HIV rest, I am going because it's routine lab work that I need done and a HIV test just so happens to be on the list.
Go where? You didn't have a risk at all, you don't need to test for what you described.
Thank you. I actually just left walmart trying to see if I can find something like that and no luck. I'll either go to a pharmacy and get one or I'm just gonna go Monday morning before work and just wait. I know I was a pain and I thank you both for your help today. It made me feel better about it all.
If its been more than 12 weeks since your exposures, and you are in North America, you should be able to find OraQuick Oral Solution Antibody tests for sale at any pharmacy. These tests take about 20 min, and are considered conclusive at 12 weeks since last exposure. You seriously have no risk from the exposures you describe, and the psychological benefit you will receive from your results will far outweigh your current anxiety. They cost about $40. A small price to pay for peace of mind.
Ugh just went and they were not taking anymore people. Online it said they closed at 1130, I got there at 11. Another week of worry unless I can go early one morning
Honestly I'm only worried about the one guy. The one who had put the his penis head right at my whole. We were talking for a while and I found out he was married and cut all communication with him once I did but when his wife told me she said don't worry you aren't the first one and that just scares me cuz I didn't/don't know his status.
Even the doc said not to worry....LISTEN to her. Trust me, the relief you will feel after the results is much better than the anxiety you are feeling right now. Please feel free to re-post your negative results when you receive them.
I even asked my doctor about it when she told me she was going to test me for it, told her the situation and she said you should be fine, so I heard it from a medical professional but I'm still afraid
Yes I do deal with anxiety and I think that's what is making me worry like crazy. I know I never had unprotected sex so I know I should be fine but my mind keeps telling me otherwise. Thank you for your post. It made me feel a lot better. So even tho I was most likely wet it still could not be any risk? The place closes in an hour so I really need to get moving but I've been so scared to go.
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