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Condom slipped while withdrawl
Let me first thank to many docs who patiently answers n listen to our questions. Needless to say you are doing a great work. So here is my situation.
1) India, i was drunk (not much 3 small beers thats it) ..met CSW, she put a condom gave me oral for a minute or so (little rough oral i wud say)
2) we went to bed,i rarely do penetration coz of fear of STDs irrespective its secure with condom, condom was there n i just planned to hv fun but donno my stupidity i tried inserting which she helped with her hand to insert my penis inside her..(me on top n inside her vagina).
3) I guess it was definetly not fully inside her may be 50-60% or so n as always disinterested to insert in CSW, after a minute or two i think i withdrew. Knowing that it had not gone inside fully n instead of pushing further inside i withdrew... N here was the shock of my life..condom wasnt there...in dim light she also searched and it was lying on bed below us..for sure i dint hv ejaculation in that time nor any precum as such....mostly i wud say my penis was dry...i washed it wit hot water within a minute...
My questions
a) i read that condom slipp is normal, is it normal to b pushed inside vagina or drop outside also. It wasnt hanging though as i read other places..
b) any risk of HIV or any std?? I read its less but still, i want confirmation in my case.
c) I read, 2 week Duo test would give 80-90% n 4 week would b conclusive...i enquired n they had CLIA test is it fine to go for 2 week CLIA test n then 4 week DUO? Or they both r same?
PS: though i hvnt seen or touched the condom to ensure it was there but i am assuming it was there because first she confirmed later also that it was there, secondly i feel sharp prussure in my penis area if it were not there thirdly even inside her i cudnt sense the skin to skin touch n could feel condom there n lastly whn i came out penis was totally dry... As i hvnt precum so i was sure....
Few more info...she was into all thesejust 4 months bak...i remember she mentioned that she was on some medicine which prevents for her to catch deseases from others ..or even to me from her if she has any...not sure what does that mean...has it anything to do with viral load...also she mentioned that she has done testing few months bak n it was fine.....
-J
1) India, i was drunk (not much 3 small beers thats it) ..met CSW, she put a condom gave me oral for a minute or so (little rough oral i wud say)
2) we went to bed,i rarely do penetration coz of fear of STDs irrespective its secure with condom, condom was there n i just planned to hv fun but donno my stupidity i tried inserting which she helped with her hand to insert my penis inside her..(me on top n inside her vagina).
3) I guess it was definetly not fully inside her may be 50-60% or so n as always disinterested to insert in CSW, after a minute or two i think i withdrew. Knowing that it had not gone inside fully n instead of pushing further inside i withdrew... N here was the shock of my life..condom wasnt there...in dim light she also searched and it was lying on bed below us..for sure i dint hv ejaculation in that time nor any precum as such....mostly i wud say my penis was dry...i washed it wit hot water within a minute...
My questions
a) i read that condom slipp is normal, is it normal to b pushed inside vagina or drop outside also. It wasnt hanging though as i read other places..
b) any risk of HIV or any std?? I read its less but still, i want confirmation in my case.
c) I read, 2 week Duo test would give 80-90% n 4 week would b conclusive...i enquired n they had CLIA test is it fine to go for 2 week CLIA test n then 4 week DUO? Or they both r same?
PS: though i hvnt seen or touched the condom to ensure it was there but i am assuming it was there because first she confirmed later also that it was there, secondly i feel sharp prussure in my penis area if it were not there thirdly even inside her i cudnt sense the skin to skin touch n could feel condom there n lastly whn i came out penis was totally dry... As i hvnt precum so i was sure....
Few more info...she was into all thesejust 4 months bak...i remember she mentioned that she was on some medicine which prevents for her to catch deseases from others ..or even to me from her if she has any...not sure what does that mean...has it anything to do with viral load...also she mentioned that she has done testing few months bak n it was fine.....
-J
I still have no clue if you had a risk or not so I can't advise you about testing.
Don't know that a CLIA test is, a DUo checks for antigen and antibodies, it is conclusive at 28 days.
Don't know that a CLIA test is, a DUo checks for antigen and antibodies, it is conclusive at 28 days.
thanx Vance.. probably the last doubt...What is CLIA test and what is DUO test..? do u see any point going for CLIA test in 14th day or wait for 28th?
thanx
thanx
thanx for the quick reply Vance...
a) i found it out..is it common as whn i tried searching it says but all the time it was inside..
B) condom was in while inserting.. but wasnt whn i pulled n saw...
c) is CLIA test at 2 weeks accurate ... how much??
a) i found it out..is it common as whn i tried searching it says but all the time it was inside..
B) condom was in while inserting.. but wasnt whn i pulled n saw...
c) is CLIA test at 2 weeks accurate ... how much??
A) No clue what you are asking
B) If you penetrated her with no condom then yes it is a risk
C) Both what the same?
B) If you penetrated her with no condom then yes it is a risk
C) Both what the same?
One more thing, i read one of the symptom of hiv is mouth ulcers... To my surprise, i got one yesterday (10 days after the encounter).... Does hiv give early symptoms like this in mere 10 days i think not..pls confirm.. 2-4 weeks wat i read..... Also, today the ulcer seems to b almost gone... Can some doc confirm it has nothing to do with this....
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